You can learn to fellowship with God. He wants to be with and enjoy his people.
Who do you like to hang out with? Although text messages,
phone calls, and video calls are a helpful substitute when we can’t get
together with someone we enjoy, what we really want is to be together in the
same room, at the same table, around the same food or activity.
The biblical word for this is fellowship. One of the
surprising things we learn about God is that he loves fellowship. He loves to
hang out with you. He enjoys simply being together.
Fellowship with God at the beginning
We see this from the start with Adam and Eve. Genesis 3
says, “They heard the sound of the LORD God walking in the garden in the cool
of the day, and the man and his wife hid themselves from the presence of the
LORD God among the trees of the garden. But the LORD God called to the man and
said to him, ‘Where are you?’” (Genesis 3:8–9 ESV).
Although we’re not told, based on what we learn about God in
the rest of Scripture, it seems likely his visit to the garden was not unusual.
It appears he came in human form, in a preincarnate manifestation of the Son of
God (that is, the Son did not yet live in a human body, but he appeared in the
form of a man). He came to walk and talk with Adam and Eve, his creation. He
came to fellowship.
Unfortunately, their sin ruined that sweet time together.
Fellowship continues
But even after the Fall, with all its devastating consequences,
humans could still fellowship with God. Genesis 5:24 says of Enoch that he “walked
with God, and he was not, for God took him.” The implication is that God took
him because he delighted so thoroughly in him.
When the Lord delivered Israel from Egypt, he instructed
Moses to create for him a tabernacle in which he could dwell, so that he could
live among his people.
When the Son of God was conceived in the womb of Mary,
Scripture explains, “‘Behold, the virgin shall conceive and bear a son, and
they shall call his name Immanuel’ (which means, God with us)’” (Matthew
1:23).
The future of fellowship with God
And this is the Lord’s plan for eternity.
After a detailed description of the future, eternal city of
God, the last verse in the OT book of Ezekiel says, “The name of the city from
that time on shall be, The LORD Is There” (Ezekiel 48:35).
Revelation, the last book of the Bible, reveals the future
that awaits believers:
1 Then I saw a new heaven and a new earth, for
the first heaven and the first earth had passed away, and the sea was no more. 2
And I saw the holy city, new Jerusalem, coming down out of heaven from God,
prepared as a bride adorned for her husband. 3 And I heard a loud
voice from the throne saying, ‘Behold, the dwelling place of God is with man.
He will dwell with them, and they will be his people, and God himself
will be with them as their God. 4 He will wipe away every
tear from their eyes, and death shall be no more, neither shall there be
mourning, nor crying, nor pain anymore, for the former things have passed away.’
5 And he who was seated on the throne said, ‘Behold, I am making all
things new.’”(Revelation 21:1–5)
This describes God as so near to his people he is wiping the
tears from their eyes!
But it’s not always that easy
It’s important to understand God’s desire for loving companionship
with us because our experiences in this life can sometimes persuade us
otherwise. Has God ever seemed far away to you? Have you ever sought him
earnestly but felt as though you didn’t sense his presence? Have you ever
wanted him to speak to you, but all you heard was your own heartbeat?
Then there is the matter of God’s holiness. The Bible says
many things about this wonderful and important quality of his, but the one
thing his holiness usually does not suggest is that he just wants to “hang out,”
relax, and be together. In the Old Testament, God’s holiness instead provoked
sinful humans to fear and required separation from him.
The door is open through Jesus
But as a result of the atoning death of Jesus on the cross
and his blood that now covers all our sin, we are in a different situation:
“Indeed our fellowship
is with the Father and with his Son Jesus Christ” (1 John 1:3, ESV). And lest
you think the third member of the Trinity is left out, 2 Corinthians 13:14 says,
“The grace of the Lord Jesus Christ and the love of God and the fellowship
of the Holy Spirit be with you all.”
The Father wants to
fellowship with you. The Son wants to fellowship with you. The Holy Spirit
wants to fellowship with you. His love is a fellowshipping kind of love, not a
distancing love. In his love for you, he enjoys your companionship. He doesn’t
want separation. Jesus prayed, “Father, I desire that they also, whom you have
given me, may be with me where I am” (John 17:24).
Notice that 1 John 1:3
emphasized the reality of our fellowship with God with the word indeed:
“indeed our fellowship is with….” In other words, the fellowship we can have
with God has the potential to be the most intense and satisfying fellowship we
can experience.
That is because God is one
with us and lives within us through the Holy Spirit. He is as close, connected,
and intimate with you as another person can be. A Christian is never alone. The
Lord’s fellowship is always with you, and you become consciously aware of it
when you turn your attention to him.
How to experience fellowship with God
1. Practice God’s presence
To experience fellowship with
God deeply and regularly, we need to learn to practice the presence of God.
2. Walk in the light
On the other hand, the
greatest hindrance to experiencing fellowship with God is if we take pleasure
in fellowship with the world, if we enjoy the spirit of the world. (1 John
2:15–16; 1 Corinthians 2:12)
2 Corinthians 6:14–7:1 says,
“14 Do not be unequally yoked with unbelievers. For what partnership
has righteousness with lawlessness? Or what fellowship has light with
darkness?15 What accord has Christ with Belial [Belial is a
name of Satan]? Or what portion does a believer share with an unbeliever? 16
What agreement has the temple of God with idols? For we are the temple of the
living God; as God said, ‘I will make my dwelling among them and walk among
them, and I will be their God, and they shall be my people. 17
Therefore go out from their midst, and be separate from them, says the Lord,
and touch no unclean thing; then I will welcome you, 18 and I will
be a father to you, and you shall be sons and daughters to me, says the Lord
Almighty.’ 1 Since we have these promises, beloved, let us cleanse
ourselves from every defilement of body and spirit, bringing holiness to
completion in the fear of God.”
God is light, and he
fellowships with light. When you keep your soul as a place of light and purity,
you can fellowship with God readily.
3. Scripture and church
Finally, we normally experience fellowship with the Lord most intensely as we read and meditate on Scripture, as we worship and give thanks to him, and as we worship and fellowship with his people. (I say “normally” because the brokenness of one’s soul, one’s wrong understandings about God, and even the attacks of demons if through evil-doing you give them access into your life, can interfere with the free and open enjoyment of God in these ways. I can’t elaborate on that in this post.)
Our way and God’s way
Our way: Doing what comes naturally, we pay attention to what we see and hear, not the invisible and usually subtle presence of God.
God’s way: The Lord delights in our companionship, but he rarely forces himself upon us.
Life principle: If we are to fellowship with God, we must pursue him intentionally. We must practice his presence.
Jeremiah 9:23–24: “Thus says the LORD: ‘Let not the wise man boast in his wisdom, let not the mighty man boast in his might, let not the rich man boast in his riches, but let him who boasts boast in this, that he understands and knows me, that I am the LORD who practices steadfast love, justice, and righteousness in the earth. For in these things I delight, declares the LORD.’” (ESV)
God’s covering may not prevent threatening situations, but his presence keeps them from defeating us.
“Oh, how abundant is your goodness, which you have stored up for those who fear you and worked for those who take refuge in you, in the sight of the children of mankind! In the cover of your presenceyou hide them from the plots of men; you store them in your shelter from the strife of tongues.”
—Psalm 31:19–20
Threatening situations
In Psalm 31 King David describes another great benefit of practicing God’s presence.
His situation is, he is under attack. He speaks of the plots of men and the strife of tongues. Earlier in the psalm he speaks of his enemies and persecutors and that people are trying to catch him with hidden nets.
He writes, “I hear the whispering of many—terror on every side!—as they scheme together against me, as they plot to take my life” (Psalm 31:13).
The response
David’s response is to take refuge in God, and what he experiences there he calls “the cover of your presence.”
God’s presence covers, protects, and shields us.
God’s covering did not prevent the attacks from happening to David, but it protected him from being defeated by them.
The relevance
We can experience the cover of God’s presence not only in situations where others are attacking us, but in any situation where we feel threatened by something that can harm us.
The threat could be financial. It could be a threat to our physical health or our family’s welfare. In any situation that causes us to fear what something or someone will do to us, we can take refuge in God and experience the cover of his presence.
How to take refuge
Of course, God is not a literal building in which we can hide, so how do we take refuge in him?
Through prayer and faith in his Word. We follow David’s example in Psalm 31 and cry out to God for his protection. We describe to him what is happening to us. And we let him know how we feel.
Then we put our trust in who God is and what his Word says. In the last six verses of the psalm David declares his confidence in what God will do to protect him. He writes, “The LORD preserves the faithful but abundantly repays the one who acts in pride” (v. 23).
Taking refuge in God means bring him to the forefront of our minds and putting threats in their place. We meditate on his greatness, faithfulness, and promises. These thoughts and truths are God’s presence to our minds.
Divine cover
Moreover, as we think in this way, God’s Holy Spirit manifests the peace of God in our hearts in a way that transcends understanding. In other words, the cover of God’s presence is more than thinking the right thoughts; it is the very supernatural presence of God.
As the apostle Paul writes: “Do not be anxious about anything, but in everything by prayer and supplication with thanksgiving let your requests be made known to God. And the peace of God, which surpasses all understanding, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus” (Philippians 4:6–7).
Furthermore, we experience God’s actual defense, as he works in the situation in the way he chooses to protect us from harm. This too is the cover of God’s presence.
As Paul wrote from a Roman prison: “The Lord stood by me and strengthened me, so that through me the message might be fully proclaimed and all the Gentiles might hear it. So I was rescued from the lion’s mouth. The Lord will rescue me from every evil deed and bring me safely into his heavenly kingdom.” (2 Timothy 4:17–18)
All people want lasting happiness. But we find sustained joy in the place least expected.
In this series on practicing God’s presence we have seen the recurring idea of joy. There is a deep connection between practicing God’s presence and joy.
The pursuit of lasting happiness
This is an important subject to explore further because happiness is what we’re all after. We pursue joy in innumerable ways, but in the end that is what we’re seeking. We do things because they make us happy.
So what we need to be convinced of is that practicing God’s presence leads to the ultimate experience of joy. The people on earth who practice God’s presence best are the ones who have the most happiness.
In particular if you struggle with sadness or depression, learning to practice God’s presence better is crucial for you.
What King David learned
David, speaking of himself in the third person, says in Psalm 21:6–7, “You make him most blessed forever; you make him glad with the joy of your presence. For the king trusts in the LORD, and through the steadfast love of the Most High he shall not be moved.”
David here refers to “the joy of your presence.” He says God’s presence makes him glad. And then he explains further: “For the king trusts in the LORD.” There is a connection between God’s presence and our trust in him. When we practice God’s presence we trust him more.
Security
One of the strongest drives most people have is the pursuit of security. We live in a dangerous world. We can lose anything and everything we value in a moment. Our health, job, money to pay for housing and food and other needs, family, friendships and so on—all are terribly vulnerable. And we know it, so we worry, fear, and feel insecure.
But notice David’s sense of security: “through the steadfast love of the Most High he shall not be moved.” David says with perfect confidence that he shall not be moved.
And he bases that confidence in God’s steadfast love. Ultimately your sense of security can only come from knowing God’s steadfast love, his covenant-based love, for you. It comes from knowing that steadfast love not just with your head, but with your heart, because trust is a heart thing.
And you know God’s steadfast love with your heart when you practice his presence.
Try it today. Practice God’s presence faithfully throughout the day and see if by the end of the day you do not have more trust in God’s steadfast love, a greater sense of security, and ultimately more joy.
Those who walk closest to God are the happiest people in the world.
Your soul has a big appetite. A filling meal is on the table. You can find spiritual satisfaction.
We all know what it’s like for life to crowd out the practice of God’s presence. We get busy. Distractions are everywhere. We face problems and crises.
But God invites us to a better way.
He told Moses, “You shall set the bread of the Presence on the table before me regularly” (Exodus 25:30).
This was a regulation for the Tabernacle, the transportable tent where Israel worshiped during their desert wanderings. It became the model for the permanent Temple.
So, what does this have to do with practicing God’s presence? The Temple is a metaphor for body and soul. First Corinthians 6:19 says to Christians, “Do you not know that your body is a temple of the Holy Spirit within you, whom you have from God?”
The bread of the presence
The temple had three sections: the courtyard, the holy place, and the most holy place.
The most holy place, containing the ark of the covenant, had the very presence of God. This corresponds to God’s presence in you that never leaves. He has united with you, and that’s that. You can’t practice it; he’s there.
The area outside the most holy place was the holy place and had three pieces of furniture: a table for burning incense, a lampstand, and a table for the Bread of the Presence.
The priests put twelve fresh loaves of bread on that table weekly to replace the stale bread of the previous week. The fresh bread of God’s presence was not in the holy place unless the priest did something.
So it is with us. Normally we need to attend to God’s presence in order to experience it. We can’t rely on old bread. We need to keep presenting fresh bread through prayer, worship, turning our thoughts to God, and so on.
Soul food
Bread is an important metaphor. It was the daily food staple of the Israelites. God uses this metaphor to teach that his presence is the daily food of our souls. Nothing is more satisfying or delicious to our spirit than God’s presence.
Jesus said, “I am the bread of life” (John 6:35).
If you truly experience God’s presence, it is more satisfying than media entertainment, smart phone activity, human conversation, food, pleasure, or work.
Find spiritual satisfaction even in a crisis
Moreover, God’s presence is available at the hardest times. David said, “You prepare a table before me in the presence of my enemies” (Psalm 23:5).
He literally experienced that when fleeing from King Saul’s assassins. David went to the temple and asked the priest for something to eat. The priest gave him the Bread of the Presence. (Mark 2:25–26; 1 Samuel 21:1–6)
The lesson for you is, the satisfying bread of God’s presence is available if you have assassins at your heels.
If you feel everything is going wrong.
If you feel worse has come to worst.
When you are tired, alone, afraid, stressed, worried, sick, hungry, bankrupt, unemployed, rejected, persecuted, homeless, hospitalized.
God’s presence is available to you.
So eat the bread of heaven. Every hour of every day. He wants to be with you even in terrible times.
How do we experience well-being as a result of keeping the Lord in view?
Practicing God’s presence requires effort and self-control, and therefore we need to know why we are doing it. King David describes four benefits in Psalm 16:7–11.
Why Practice God’s Presence?
1. To receive God’s counsel
Psalm 16:7 says, “I bless the LORD who gives me counsel; in the night also my heart instructs me.”
David says this happens to him day and night. As he goes through his day doing his work and thinking about God regularly, wisdom comes to his mind. As he considers his way, he knows what to do. As he lays in bed thinking about his life, still practicing God’s presence, God directs his thoughts, emotions, and will.
2. To have confidence
Psalm 16:8 says, “I have set the LORD always before me; because he is at my right hand, I shall not be shaken.”
As David faced the challenges of life, he kept God in view. As a result, God was bigger in his mind than his problems.
We fall into fear and worry only when our problems loom larger in our thoughts than God’s ability and control.
3. To hope in ultimate salvation
Psalm 16:9–11 says, “9 my flesh also dwells secure. 10 For you will not abandon my soul to Sheol, or let your holy one see corruption. 11 You make known to me the path of life”
David speaks here about what will happen to him after he dies. He is confident God will not leave him in “Sheol,” which is the Hebrew word for where the soul goes after death. He is confident the ultimate destiny of his “flesh” is not “corruption,” that is, his body left in the grave.
Instead, because David walks with God, God shows him “the path of life.” David knows his ultimate destiny is life. He is walking in God’s ways, so God will give him life after death.
Those who practice God’s presence do not fear death. His presence brings confidence in his promises and a constant awareness of the reality of God and heaven.
4. To know fulness of joy
Psalm 16:9, 11 says, “Therefore my heart is glad, and my whole being rejoices…. in your presence there is fullness of joy; at your right hand are pleasures forevermore.”
Many think happiness ends when you walk with God. But the reality is, those who practice God’s presence have the most joy.
Believers who do not practice God’s presence suffer many of the same torments as unbelievers: fear, worry, anger, despair, discouragement, and so on. They have not learned to trust and love God fully.
Joy and pleasure are God’s idea and his creation. So the closer we get to him, the happier we are and the more pleasurable life is.
There are many more benefits to practicing God’s presence—the greatest of course being God’s presence—but just these four show how worthwhile it is.
What benefits do you experience from practicing God’s presence? Share them with the rest of us in the comments area below.
God’s heart is important for those who want to experience his presence. God has heart. If we are to practice God’s presence, he must have our hearts.
God said, “I have found in David the son of Jesse a man after my heart, who will do all my will.” (Acts 13:22)
What does it mean that David was after God’s heart?
It means David pleased him and thereby inspired his affection. The direction of David’s heart pleased God’s heart. David was directed toward God in love, trust, and obedience.
Examples
Here are some of the things David wrote that demonstrate this:
“How lovely is your dwelling place, O LORD Almighty! My soul yearns, even faints, for the courts of the LORD; my heart and my flesh cry out for the living God.” (Psalm 84:1–2)
“I love you, O LORD, my strength. The LORD is my rock, my fortress and my deliverer; my God is my rock, in whom I take refuge. He is my shield and the horn of my salvation, my stronghold.” (Psalm 18:1–2)
“O God, You are my God; I shall seek You earnestly; My soul thirsts for You, my flesh yearns for You” (Psalm 63:1)
“I trust in You, O LORD, I say, ‘You are my God.’” (Psalm 31:14)
“Bless the LORD, O my soul, And all that is within me, bless His holy name.” (Psalm 103:1)
David came as close to obeying the great commandment as anyone ever has: “You shall love the LORD your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your might.” (Deuteronomy 6:5)
As a result, he moved God’s heart.
God’s heart
That God would speak in this way reveals something ultra-important about him. He has heart. He feels. God has affections. He is love. He cares what we do and think and say and seek and love.
This explains why he describes himself as a jealous God (see Exo. 20:5), because he wants our love and responds to our love or lack of it.
He delights in those who love, trust, and obey him.
Our obedience
Obedience is crucial to being a person after God’s heart. Immediately following God’s statement of affection for David, he added the explanation: David “will do all my will.”
That was not incidental because the situation that prompted God to commend David was King Saul’s disobedience. God had told Saul what to do and how to do it, and Saul had violated the commandment. He had not been careful to obey.
The prophet Samuel rebuked him, “Now your kingdom shall not continue. The LORD has sought out a man after his own heart, and the LORD has commanded him to be prince over his people, because you have not kept what the LORD commanded you.” (1 Samuel 13:14)
Our hearts
Those who successfully practice God’s presence understand the central importance of the heart. They understand God’s heart. They understand God wants their heart. It’s all about the heart.
So to practice God’s presence is to monitor our hearts. Whom do we love supremely? Trust and obey supremely? Desire supremely? Delight in supremely? To whom do we ascribe ultimate value and surrender what we most value? For whom do we live?
All this rests on a relationship with God through faith in Jesus Christ, for no one can please God apart from his beloved Son (John 14:6; 1 John 2:23). The most important and necessary way we walk after God’s heart is to believe and love his Son, of whom the Father spoke the ultimate words of affection: “This is My beloved Son, in whom I am well-pleased” (Matthew 3:17).
Moses said to God, “If your presence will not go with me, do not bring us up from here” —Exodus 33:15
These words from Moses raise an important question. Are you content without God’s presence? Are you willing to head into your daily situations without it?
The story in Exodus 33 that brought forth Moses’ words provides important principles for us about having God’s presence.
The situation was this. Israel had just sinned grievously by worshiping the golden calf made by Aaron, and they had been rebuked and punished. God then told them to depart and head into the Promised Land—with one all-important change in their situation. That is, God would not manifest his presence with them as he had done since delivering them out of Egypt.
He would give them an angel to guide them, but no longer would they have God’s presence.
Moses tells God what he thinks of that: “If your presence will not go with me, do not bring us up from here.” I don’t want to go without you. The Promised Land is not the Promised Land without you. I must have your presence.
In this story we see four principles.
1. Sin disrupts our experience of God’s presence.
When we sin, we grieve the Lord and our sense of walking in communion with him is broken. Our awareness of him and his holiness is broken or disrupted. The attitude of honoring him is broken. Our worship is broken. And the manifestation of God’s presence is disrupted or broken.
What takes its place is a sense of guilt, shame, uncertainty, tentativeness, loneliness.
What is at stake for Christians is different from what was at stake for Moses and the Israelites. Jesus will not leave or forsake us as long as we keep sincere faith in him. Neither does the Holy Spirit come and go, living in us and then not living in us depending on whether we sin.
What changes is our mental state, as described above, and God’s willingness to manifest his presence.
God does not manifest his presence in a constant way.
For example, I can be in a room full of people and manifest my presence in different ways and varied degrees. I may say and do nothing but sit in a chair and observe. At other times I may talk softly or loudly, moving around the room, doing things like working, moving furniture, serving food, washing dishes. Consequently others in the room will notice my presence more or less.
In the same way, the Holy Spirit manifests his presence differently.
2. We should not be content to go through our day without God’s presence.
The feeling that God is absent should not be acceptable to us.
If we do not regard God’s presence as essential, if we are willing to go without it, we can, for God gives us the desires of our hearts. But when we charge ahead without his presence, we do so to our loss.
For God himself is the great reward of life. If you have him, you have all. If you do not have him, you ultimately have nothing but ashes.
3. We should ask for God’s presence.
In one important sense, we can assume that if we are Christian we have his presence. The Holy Spirit lives in every true believer.
But we cannot assume we have the fullest measure of his presence that is possible and available. That is the implication of Ephesians 5:18: “Be filled with the Spirit.” That admonition is meaningless if the full measure of the presence of God is constant and something we can assume to be true.
Asking is especially important if we have lost the sense of his presence through sin. After we have confessed and repented, we should sincerely ask for the renewal of his presence.
4. God has favor toward our request for his presence.
This story shows the willingness of God to have mercy and dwell among his people, even when they are unworthy. Even when they have failed egregiously.
This favor drives the story of the Bible. It begins with God walking in the garden with Adam and Eve, and it ends with God bringing the temple to earth and living with his people forever in the New Heavens and New Earth. Being present with his people is the heart of God.
In his sovereign time and way, God responds to our request for his presence. We do not have because we do not ask.
I want to be like Moses, to have the attitude that I don’t do life without God. I want every moment of every day to be as filled with God’s presence as he is willing to give me. Anything less is unacceptable.
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You can recognize God’s presence. It is typically not dramatic or earth-shaking.
By Craig Brian Larson
Last week in our church’s midweek prayer meeting I experienced the presence of God. After approximately fifteen minutes of our praying and waiting on the Lord, I unexpectedly had two clear sensations. First, it felt as though the spiritual atmosphere in and around me became lighter, as though there was a lifting. Second, my hands quickly became warm, as though flooded with more blood.
These sensations caught my attention, though unexpected and unsought, and I began praying about what God wanted me to do next because, although I have experienced both of these sensations before in prayer, they are not my everyday or everyweek experience, and the feeling was not usually as clear.
Often when I have this sensation in a meeting, I will begin laying hands on people, praying for them, and blessing them. I did not do that on this occasion, and perhaps I missed an opportunity because, although I did pray with a strong sense of inspiration for the remainder of the meeting, nothing extraordinary happened.
There is no doubt in my mind I experienced the presence of God in that meeting. But experiences like this are not the only way God manifests his presence. Some feel more powerful to us, some less, but they are all important, for God chooses how he works in us, and he has a purpose in each. In this article we will identify eight ways we experience the presence of God.
God’s presence is recognizable
Twice in his epistle, the apostle John says we know something by the fact that we actually recognize the Holy Spirit’s presence in our lives. First John 3:24 says, “Whoever keeps his commandments abides in God, and God in him. And by this we know that he abides in us, by the Spirit whom he has given us.” First John 4:13 says, “By this we know that we abide in him and he in us, because he has given us of his Spirit.” Both of these verses imply that Christians are able to recognize the Holy Spirit’s presence in their lives. That is, it’s not something we simply take by faith; rather, there are recognizable indicators of the Holy Spirit’s presence.
Grace
To recognize God’s manifest presence, we need to understand how the New Testament uses the word grace. The first use of the word is to describe the unmerited favor of God. That is, we are justified by grace through faith in Jesus Christ. Though we have sinned and deserve only condemnation, God gives us kindness and salvation. (For example, see Ephesians 2:8–9.)
The second use of the word grace is to describe enablement. God gives ability. For example, Peter writes, “As each has received a gift, use it to serve one another, as good stewards of God’s varied grace” (1 Peter 4:10). Here Peter refers to the ability and willingness to teach and serve others in a church as examples of grace, of enablement, that God gives people. In other words, if God’s Holy Spirit did not give this ability and motivation, people would not be able to do what they do.
Grace is an important word in this article, for it is a key idea in properly understanding the presence of God in your life. Whenever you experience the grace of God’s enablement, you are experiencing the manifest presence of God. His hand is on you. He is working for his good purpose. Don’t miss it. Respond properly and prayerfully. Don’t take for granted, downplay, or ignore the less dramatic manifestations of his presence. And at the other end of the spectrum, don’t fall into the unbelief that is blind and deaf to God’s extraordinary workings.
Let’s look now at eight ways we experience God’s gracious presence, beginning with the less dramatic (but all-important) and concluding with the extraordinary.
1. Grace for truth
Jesus’ 12 disciples had already been with him for several years and seen many miracles when one day Jesus asked them a crucial question: “Who do people say that the Son of Man is?” (Matthew 16:13).
The identity of Jesus is obvious to believers today, but it was not so to the people of that time, and not even to the 12. They responded, “Some say John the Baptist, others say Elijah, and others Jeremiah or one of the prophets.” Notice that nowhere on that list is the correct answer. Jesus was doing and saying extraordinary things, but he was a man clothed with flesh and blood. At this point, his cross and resurrection could not even be imagined. Who he was was anyone’s guess.
Then Jesus pressed the question home. “Who do you say that I am?”
Peter responded. “You are the Christ, the Son of the living God.”
Again, this confession is probably unremarkable to you. Of course he is the Christ, the Son of the living God. Nothing earth-shaking or miraculous there. Important, yes, but such words and such a belief does not require God to come and manifest his presence. So we might think.
Jesus knew better. He responded as though Peter had just won the lottery. “Blessed are you, Simon Bar-Jonah! For flesh and blood has not revealed this to you, but my Father who is in heaven. And I tell you, you are Peter, and on this rock I will build my church, and the gates of hell shall not prevail against it. I will give you the keys of the kingdom of heaven, and whatever you bind on earth shall be bound in heaven, and whatever you loose on earth shall be loosed in heaven” (Matthew 16:17–19).
Over the top? No. Jesus is far more impressed by what Peter just confessed than by all the miracles he himself had done to this point. Jesus knew that fallen sinners cannot truly comprehend and believe spiritual truth apart from the supernatural working of God in their lives, that is, apart from a revelation from the Holy Spirit, apart from the Holy Spirit turning on the light in one’s human spirit—apart from the grace and presence of God. Jesus said God had “revealed” this to Peter.
On the scale of what matters in the long run, nothing could compare to this, not having blind eyes or deaf ears opened, not having crippled limbs healed, not walking on water. All these are powerful works indeed, and wondrous to see, but by themselves they don’t get your sins forgiven and your soul saved. That depends on faith in the truth about Jesus. And that depends on the miracle of a revelation from God. (Judas, for example, saw all the miracles and even heard the truth, but he never truly heard.)
The apostle Paul also recognized that it took the supernatural work of the Holy Spirit for a human to believe even the most fundamental truth about Jesus. Paul wrote, “No one can say, ‘Jesus is Lord’ except in the Holy Spirit” (1 Corinthians 12:3). Think about that. Three words. The most basic truth about Jesus. You can’t say it with conviction unless you are “in the Holy Spirit,” that is, unless you are experiencing the presence of God. Don’t take that for granted. Don’t think you can learn spiritual truth like you learn geometry or chemistry. It’s supernatural.
On the road to Emmaus, two disciples of Jesus experienced the presence of God. Jesus had been crucified just days before. They had heard the report from the women who went to the tomb that they had seen the resurrected Lord, but the men did not believe it. As they walked on the road Jesus came and walked with them and explained the Scriptures to them. Later that day, he suddenly vanished from their sight, and they realized this was the resurrected Jesus.
Their next words are crucial: “They said to each other, ‘Did not our hearts burn within us while he talked to us on the road, while he opened to us the Scriptures?’” (Luke 24:32). Has your heart ever burned as you read the Bible, heard a sermon, thought about God, worshiped him, meditated on his names, or considered the most important ideas of the Christian faith (its doctrine)? That was supernatural. It was as supernatural as what happened to the 11 disciples when Jesus appeared to them a few hours later: “Then he opened their minds to understand the Scriptures” (Luke 24:45).
Back in the book of Corinthians, Paul explained, “No one comprehends the thoughts of God except the Spirit of God. 12 Now we have received not the spirit of the world, but the Spirit who is from God, that we might understand the things freely given us by God…. 14 The natural person does not accept the things of the Spirit of God, for they are folly to him, and he is not able to understand them because they are spiritually discerned” (1 Corinthians 2:11, 12, 14).
And so, whenever you read the Bible or listen to a sermon, and you understand and believe what the Bible says, you are in the Holy Spirit. God is present with you and in you. As 1 John 2:27 says, “His anointing teaches you about everything.” His manifest presence is changing your heart as surely as a pitch-dark room changes when the light is turned on. The grace he is giving you to understand and believe the truth is eternally important and should be greatly valued as what it is—supernatural—as wonderful as bread broken to feed 5,000.
And what should you do in response? Believe. Trust. Obey. Share.
2. Grace for Christian virtues
In general there is one time of day when I am least likely to sense the presence of God. It is when I wake up during the night. And it is no coincidence I’ve had more fearful, selfish, unbelieving, tormented, greedy, rash, and quitting thoughts in the middle of the night than at any other time. There is a direct correlation between the condition of my heart and the manifest presence of God in my life.
But the middle of the night is not the only time that my flesh can take over, and God can seem far away. If my wife and I argue about something on Sunday morning and I have lingering feelings of anger, I am not going to sense the presence of God in church until I forgive. If discouragement or jealousy or self-pity settles into my soul, God will seem far, far away.
When the flesh, that is, the sinful nature, controls my heart, the Holy Spirit is not in control, and his manifest presence fades. Galatians 5:17 says, “The desires of the flesh are against the Spirit, and the desires of the Spirit are against the flesh, for these are opposed to each other.” The one that rules is the presence that is manifest and felt.
When God first chose Saul to be king of Israel, the prophet Samuel met with him and revealed God’s selection. Samuel revealed a sequence of events that would happen to Saul, including an encounter he would have with a group of prophets. Samuel predicted, “Then the Spirit of the LORD will rush upon you, and you will prophesy with them and be turned into another man” (1 Samuel 10:6).
Here we see God’s mighty Holy Spirit presence rushing upon Saul and manifesting in two ways: the spiritual gift of prophecy and the spiritual transformation of his soul. Unfortunately Saul later rebelled, disobeyed, and hardened his heart against God, and the Holy Spirit left him, but at this point the transformation was real. We see this new presence of God in his life manifested particularly in the courage he showed on several occasions to step out and lead Israel in battle against its enemies, despite shyness and a low opinion of himself.
God’s mighty presence turns you into another person. “The fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, self-control” (Galatians 5:22–23). When the Holy Spirit fills your soul, you act like Jesus rather than Satan.
God’s presence feels like God’s character. It feels like love, peace, righteousness, wisdom, and joy. I opened this article describing a time when I felt God’s presence physically, but that is not the typical way a Christian experiences God’s presence. Typically we will recognize God’s powerful presence by the fruits of the Spirit in us, by godly virtue. As Paul told Timothy, “God gave us a spirit not of fear but of power and love and self-control” (2 Timothy 1:7).
John wrote, “If we love one another, God abides in us and his love is perfected in us” (1 John 4:12). When God abides, he is present. When your heart is moved with compassion for a needy person, that is Christ living in you.
Paul wrote, “Do not be anxious about anything, but in everything by prayer and supplication with thanksgiving let your requests be made known to God. And the peace of God, which surpasses all understanding, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus” (Philippians 4:6–7). When the supernatural peace of God replaces anxiety in your soul, that is the presence of God.
When you show me a godly person, you’re showing me God’s grace—God’s manifest presence—in a person. Notice again the connection of the Holy Spirit’s powerful presence with Christian virtues in these verses: “May the God of hope fill you with all joy and peace in believing, so that by the power of the Holy Spirit you may abound in hope” (Romans 15:13). “For the kingdom of God is not a matter of eating and drinking but of righteousness and peace and joy in the Holy Spirit” (Romans 14:17).
So do not discount the grace of a Christlike heart. The healing of the soul is just as supernatural as the healing of the body, though both are of course important. If you leave a church service, or conclude your daily devotional time of prayer and Bible reading, filled with love, faith, peace, joy, hope, humility, and a passion for holiness, you have experienced the manifest presence of God. You are filled with God. This is more common than spectacular manifestations of God’s presence and far more important in God’s sight.
3. Grace for reverence
I completely surrendered my life to Jesus when I was 19-years-old. I had grown up believing in Jesus and had a tender conscience toward him, but when I went away to college that gradually receded.
Then, at a hotel, on a trip to Iowa for a gymnastics meet, I walked into the room of a teammate and found him reading the Bible. It occurred to me I needed to read the Bible, so I went back to my room and began reading the Gideon’s Bible in the dresser drawer. I don’t remember what part of the Bible I was reading, but what I will never forget is how I suddenly became gripped with a sense of the fear of God. My soul was overwhelmed with the awareness that he is the Lord of everything, and I was not living as though he was Lord. I bowed my head and tearfully confessed my sins and made him the Lord of my life.
That kind of fear is not natural to human nature. In fact the opposite is true. Have you ever read the Book of Exodus, how God delivered Israel from Egypt by unleashing ten terrible plagues on Pharaoh and Egypt and their idols, and wondered, What was Pharaoh thinking? One after another, the plagues brought the nation to terrible misery and utter ruin, yet time and again Pharaoh would harden his heart and say no to Moses’s demand that he let the people go. Then, even after losing his own firstborn son to the final plague, along with every other family in Egypt losing their firstborn son, and allowing Israel to leave, in no time he sends out his chariots and soldiers to bring Israel back. Pharaoh, what are you thinking? What has to happen for you to learn your lesson, for you to fear God?
What must happen is supernatural. Even suffering the most terrible judgments and seeing with one’s own eyes the awesome wrath of God, fallen human nature will not sincerely fear God. Unconverted people might temporarily fear consequences, but they will not have the authentic reverence God deserves. That is what biblical history reveals over and over again, from Adam, to Cain, to Lamech, to the mysterious “sons of God,” to Israel and its series of fallen kings—even including Solomon—to Judas, to the Pharisees, to the antichrist and the people suffering the final Tribulation who even in those terrible times will blaspheme God and refuse to repent of their wickedness (Revelation 16:9, 11, 21).
The apostle Paul wrote about mankind’s natural refusal to fear God. His conclusion about the human condition unaided by God’s grace is this:
“We have already charged that all, both Jews and Greeks, are under sin, as it is written: ‘None is righteous, no, not one; no one understands; no one seeks for God. All have turned aside; together they have become worthless; no one does good, not even one….There is no fear of God before their eyes.’” (Romans 3:9–12, 18)
This is the normal state of fallen humanity. Even believers who follow their flesh will lack the fear of God and continue in sin apart from God’s grace. What else could explain the way non-believers and believers alike ignore God’s commandments about sexual morality, about taking God’s name in vain, about slander and lust and greed and coveting and impurity? Scripture warns that we reap what we sow. God warns “Be sure your sin will find you out.” Yet people act as though God is someone to be trifled with, as though they will never stand before a holy God and give account for every single thing they have ever said and done and receive full justice.
What must happen to overcome this irreverence toward God is a work of the Holy Spirit. Jesus said when the Holy Spirit comes, “He will convict the world concerning sin and righteousness and judgment” (John 16:8). The Holy Spirit must convince people about the issues that should cause people to fear God, their sins, their unrighteousness in God’s sight, the judgment of God that is coming. The Holy Spirit must convince people of the holiness of the one true God.
Therefore, when you experience both a head and heart knowledge of the holiness of God, and sincere reverence for him, and you fear doing anything that would incur his judgment, that is the presence of the Holy Spirit in you. When you experience true conviction of a particular sin and a willingness to repent, that is the presence of the Holy Spirit. And oh what an all-important grace that is.
4. Grace for liveliness
The presence of God that brings spiritual vitality is something I unmistakably experience—or don’t experience—every single week. That’s because I am a pastor of a church, so I lead worship services and other prayer meetings every week. Frankly, some of them are lively and energetic, and some drag along. In some God feels very present, and in others he feels far away. In some attenders do not need anyone spurring them on to participate enthusiastically, and in others people are passive and even bored.
I’ve learned I cannot predict or control this. No matter how much I pray and even fast for the meetings, no matter how hard I work to prepare, God’s presence is up to him. And usually it really is a matter of the manifest presence of the Holy Spirit, not just how much sleep people had the night before or how tired they are from work, although that at times comes into play. I can usually feel in my spirit whether a meeting will be alive even before it begins.
Spiritual vitality that comes from the grace of God does not happen only in church meetings. You do or do not experience it every day, all day, with regard to your motivation to seek the Lord and obey his commands, read the Bible, pray, worship and sing to God, and serve others in love. You are spiritually zealous or disinterested in spiritual things. You are stirred to seek the Lord, or spiritually flat.
I’m now going to quote a passage in Scripture that illustrates the relationship between vitality—life—and the Spirit of God. You may be tempted merely to scan it, but I urge you not to make that mistake even if you’ve read it many times before. I quote the full excerpt because it will have its deepest effect on your spirit if you read it slowly in full. It is the picture of a river flowing from the temple of God, and of course the river is a metaphor for the Holy Spirit:
“1 Then he brought me back to the door of the temple, and behold, water was issuing from below the threshold of the temple toward the east (for the temple faced east). The water was flowing down from below the south end of the threshold of the temple, south of the altar. 2 Then he brought me out by way of the north gate and led me around on the outside to the outer gate that faces toward the east; and behold, the water was trickling out on the south side.
“3 Going on eastward with a measuring line in his hand, the man measured a thousand cubits, and then led me through the water, and it was ankle-deep. 4 Again he measured a thousand, and led me through the water, and it was knee-deep. Again he measured a thousand, and led me through the water, and it was waist-deep. 5 Again he measured a thousand, and it was a river that I could not pass through, for the water had risen. It was deep enough to swim in, a river that could not be passed through.
“6 And he said to me, ‘Son of man, have you seen this?’ Then he led me back to the bank of the river. 7 As I went back, I saw on the bank of the river very many trees on the one side and on the other.
“8 And he said to me, ‘This water flows toward the eastern region and goes down into the Arabah, and enters the sea; when the water flows into the sea, the water will become fresh. 9 And wherever the river goes, every living creature that swarms will live, and there will be very many fish. For this water goes there, that the waters of the sea may become fresh; so everything will live where the river goes.
“‘10 Fishermen will stand beside the sea. From Engedi to Eneglaim it will be a place for the spreading of nets. Its fish will be of very many kinds, like the fish of the Great Sea. 11 But its swamps and marshes will not become fresh; they are to be left for salt.
“‘ 12 And on the banks, on both sides of the river, there will grow all kinds of trees for food. Their leaves will not wither, nor their fruit fail, but they will bear fresh fruit every month, because the water for them flows from the sanctuary. Their fruit will be for food, and their leaves for healing.’” (Ezekiel 47:1–12 ESV)
The manifest presence of the Holy Spirit of God brings life, energy, zeal, dynamism, vitality, to your soul and to the gatherings of God’s people. He dispels human lethargy, heaviness, and deadness.
This is why the apostle Paul would begin and end his letters with the blessing/prayer, “Grace be with you.” He was saying, may God enable you by his presence to live this Christian life; may his Holy Spirit empower you to be spiritually alive.
5. Grace for boldness
Another way we recognize the presence of God is when Christians have courage to speak the Word of God regardless of potential hostility or harm to themselves. The presence of the Holy Spirit gives boldness.
Early in the history of the church, the religious leaders seized the apostles Peter and John for healing a lame man and then preaching to the crowds that gathered about the resurrection of Jesus. The Jewish leaders put them on trial and asked, “By what power or by what name did you do this?”
Peter did not answer tactfully. “Let it be known to all of you,” Peter said, “and to all the people of Israel that by the name of Jesus Christ of Nazareth, whom you crucified, whom God raised from the dead—by him this man is standing before you well. This Jesus is the stone that was rejected by you, the builders, which has become the cornerstone. And there is salvation in no one else, for there is no other name under heaven given among men by which we must be saved.” (Acts 4:10–12 ESV)
That was not a statement written by a public relations firm to win the favor of those in power. But it was a bold statement of the truth. And before the author of Acts gives us Peter’s words, he tells us that Peter was “filled with the Holy Spirit” (v. 8). Boldness and the presence of God go together.
After the religious leaders consulted together about what to do with Peter and John, they ordered them to stop preaching Jesus, threatened them, and then released them. Peter and John returned to the church and reported what had happened. The church lifted their voices to God and prayed that he would give them boldness to keep preaching the gospel. What happened next was earth-shaking: “When they had prayed, the place in which they were gathered together was shaken, and they were all filled with the Holy Spirit and continued to speak the word of God with boldness” (Acts 4:31).
The presence of God and fearlessness go together.
Fifteen hundred years later, in the early days of the Reformation, a young German monk caught the attention of the Pope and the Roman Catholic Church when he began writing and preaching that people are saved only by the grace of God through faith in Jesus Christ, apart from religious acts of penance. Eventually he was excommunicated and brought before a Church court, where the Church scholars demanded he recant his writings. If he did not, he would be given a death sentence and likely end up burned at the stake.
Facing that threat would get your attention. The monk asked for time to consider his decision. One day later he took his stand before the reassembled court and declared:
“Your Imperial Majesty and Your Lordships demand a simple answer. Here it is, plain and unvarnished. Unless I am convinced of error by the testimony of Scripture or by manifest reasoning, I stand convinced by the Scriptures to which I have appealed, and my conscience is taken captive by God’s word. I cannot and will not recant anything, for to act against our conscience is neither safe for us, nor open to us. On this I take my stand. I can do no other. God help me.”
The monk, of course, was Martin Luther. Where did he get the boldness to take such a stand? From the grace given by the presence of the Holy Spirit.
6. Grace-enabled “flow”
When God is present, there can be an inspired, streaming flow of whatever he is manifesting.
Jesus said, “If anyone thirsts, let him come to me and drink. Whoever believes in me, as the Scripture has said, ‘Out of his heart will flow rivers of living water.’ Now this he said about the Spirit” (John 7:37–39 ESV).
The presence of the Holy Spirit can flow like a river. The water just keeps coming from its source. There is a flow of ideas, words, feelings, energy, guidance. Whatever we are doing with God at that moment can become easy and natural.
Not that we always experience this, not that the absence of flow means the Holy Spirit is absent, but when there is a flow of spiritual inspiration the Holy Spirit likely is present in a special way.
Jesus said, “When they bring you before the synagogues and the rulers and the authorities, do not be anxious about how you should defend yourself or what you should say, for the Holy Spirit will teach you in that very hour what you ought to say” (Luke 12:11–12 ESV). That’s flow. Jesus said the words will be there when you need them.
That’s what happened to Peter on the day of Pentecost, when he stood up and spontaneously explained to the crowd that gathered what was happening. After recording some of his words, the author of Acts writes, “With many other words he bore witness and continued to exhort them” (Acts 2:40 ESV).
When I speak to others in a gift of prophecy, I experience a flow. I begin speaking with an idea or a few words that I feel have been revealed to me, not knowing what I will say after the first sentence. Then the words and ideas just keep coming, and sooner or later the flow stops.
I vividly remember one especially inspired time of praying over all the attenders at one Sunday worship service. I laid hands on people one by one and prayed as I felt led of the Lord. After praying for a half-dozen people, I was interceding with a level of inspiration I had never experienced before. God was showing me things and inspiring me with faith that kept getting stronger and stronger. When I was finished, I even went back to pray again with some of the earlier people in line because I felt they had been shortchanged by not being in the later flow.
There is an important lesson here for those who want to minister in the power of the Holy Spirit. When the flow comes, follow it. Don’t choke it off. Don’t stop prematurely.
7. Grace bringing physical sensations
One of the most familiar stories in the Gospels is the account of Jesus’ healing the woman who had a discharge of blood for 12 years, but there’s something in this that Westerners can easily miss. The woman touched Jesus, immediately received her healing, and then this happened: “Jesus, perceiving in himself that power had gone out from him, immediately turned about in the crowd and said, ‘Who touched my garments?’” (Mark 5:30 ESV)
How did Jesus perceive power moving from his body to hers? We don’t know for sure because the Scripture doesn’t tell us, but most likely he experienced a physical sensation. I say this is likely because Christian history—in particular the history of great spiritual awakenings and revivals, as well as the testimonies of ministers used in the gift of healing—are filled with stories of Christians saying they had physical sensations when the Holy Spirit came upon them or worked through them in a special way. This is not always the case, and it is obviously subjective, but it is reported too often to ignore.
One author lists the following physical sensations reported by people attending such meetings: heat, electricity, power, trembling, weakness, or a weight upon them.
I think it’s likely Christians often have physical sensations like this, actually from God, but it never crosses their minds that it could be something spiritual. They either don’t pay attention, or they dismiss it as having a physical cause. That is the way people trained in Western education systems think.
I saw a video last week of a missionary to Taiwan named Cina Silva who testified of being healed of torn ligaments in her ankle. She was in a meeting, and when the speaker came to the podium, he greeted everyone with the words, “Jesus is here to deliver and heal.” Cina reported, “As soon as he said the word ‘heal,’ this power surge went into my foot and across to the other foot and went up and down my body, twice.’” She was instantly, permanently healed.
8. Grace for what we recognize as supernatural
Finally, we experience God’s presence in things we clearly recognize as supernatural. Although all the graces described in the previous points are supernatural, requiring the power of the Holy Spirit, we usually don’t think of them as supernatural.
On the other hand, we recognize the clearly supernatural presence of God in miracles; physical healings; dramatic healings of the soul including deliverance from demons; the baptism of the Holy Spirit; spiritual gifts like prophecy, tongues and interpretation, words of knowledge, supernatural signs and wonders, and visions and dreams and unusual messages from God.
These supernatural things are real, and they are not limited to the times of the Bible. They happen today regularly all over the world. When they happen, God is present.
This was true even for Jesus: “It came to pass on a certain day, as he was teaching, that there were Pharisees and doctors of the law sitting by, which were come out of every town of Galilee, and Judaea, and Jerusalem: and the power of the Lord was present to heal them” (Luke 5:17 KJV).
Notice in 1 Corinthians 12:4–11 the emphasis on the Holy Spirit being present to manifest the supernatural gifts: “4 Now there are varieties of gifts, but the same Spirit;5 and there are varieties of service, but the same Lord; 6 and there are varieties of activities, but it is the same God who empowers them all in everyone. 7 To each is given the manifestation of the Spirit for the common good. 8 For to one is given through the Spirit the utterance of wisdom, and to another the utterance of knowledge according to the same Spirit,9 to another faith by the same Spirit, to another gifts of healing by the one Spirit,10 to another the working of miracles, to another prophecy, to another the ability to distinguish between spirits, to another various kinds of tongues, to another the interpretation of tongues. 11 All these are empowered by one and the same Spirit, who apportions to each one individually as he wills” (1 Corinthians 12:4–11 ESV).
Clearly, when supernatural spiritual gifts are manifesting, God is present.
Once my wife was driving on a four-lane road that was not a divided highway, and she was in the left lane of the two lanes going her direction. She heard in her spirit the words, Move into the right lane. She didn’t know what to think of this, and then again she heard in her spirit the same words. So she pulled into the right lane. In less than 20 seconds, some sort of jostling occurred in the cars coming from the other direction, and one of the cars swerved into the lane Nancy had been in a few seconds before. Nancy was spared from an accident by God’s supernatural presence in a voice in her heart.
During my sophomore year at Illinois State University, I made a decision one morning to ask a girl out for a date. I had been introduced to her once several weeks before, and I was interested in her. I decided to phone her later that night after working on an assignment at the computer lab. I was sitting in a computer room typing out my code with about six other students. The door opened to the lab room, and I glanced behind me. I did a double take. It was the girl I had decided that morning to ask out for a date. I did not have any classes with her. I had never seen her anywhere except for the time I was introduced to her (Illinois State had about 20,000 students). But here she was in a little room on the night I was planning to ask her out.
I had enough sense to know when God had set the table for me. I said hi and asked if I could walk her back to her dorm room when she was finished with her work. She said yes, and a year and a half later she said yes when I asked her to marry me. When you experience a clear providence such as this meeting, you know that God is present working in your circumstances.
Conclusion
God is present everywhere, at all times, though we do not see or feel him. But at specific times he manifests his presence in greater, perceptible ways for certain purposes.
Recognizing God’s presence helps us in many ways. It enables us to respond accordingly, to make sure we are fully attentive to him, to ask him what to do and listen carefully, to step out in faith, to work with him, to give thanks and worship.
Recognizing God’s presence can guide you and make you more fruitful in your work for him.
The book “The Practice of the Presence of God,” by Brother Lawrence, played an important role in helping me learn to pray and be aware of God throughout the day.
I have found that practicing God’s presence is one secret to having a deeply satisfying, personal relationship with him. In brief, it involves being aware of him all through the day.
I have not arrived, I still have much to learn, but normally that describes my life. I practice God’s presence, and I can say from experience it is the only way to live.
Here is the story of how I learned it and how you can too.
My story of learning to practice God’s presence
Two books have been crucial in teaching me how to practice God’s presence.
First and most important of course is the Bible. That is the basis for all true knowledge of God, an inexhaustible source of instruction about God and a means of fellowship with him. More on that later.
Brother Lawrence and The Practice of the Presence of God
Second is a book I read a few years ago that God used to teach an approach to practicing God’s presence through prayer.
There is a spirit to this book that affected my heart. Just its title, The Practice of the Presence of God, gave me a new way of looking at prayer.
If you have grave concerns about many tenets of Roman Catholic theology, as I do, you might reject the book before reading because the author was a French monk some 400 years ago.1 But I believe the author, Brother Lawrence, who was not a church leader or theologian, had a genuine relationship with God through faith in Christ, despite some wrong beliefs.
Several people have translated the book, but I recommend the edition by Whitaker House, published in 1982. You can get it on Kindle or in paperback at Amazon, or from Whitaker House.
I also highly recommend Harold Myra’s 40-day devotional on the book published in 2017 by Discovery House, available in Kindle and paperback. It contains devotions written by Myra (former publisher and ceo at Christianity Today) and a modern paraphrase of The Practice of the Presence of God.
I’ve reread it numerous times because it affects my heart. I feel God’s love and am stirred to relate to him personally.
The best book
Throughout my life I have practiced God’s presence through a daily devotional time of Bible reading and prayer, which I still do.
I love this more than a good meal. It is my reference point for knowing God in my mind and spirit.
I know what it is like to feel his presence because in these times of devotion I hear his voice in Scripture. And that is a sure plumb line.
I know what the peace and the thoughts of God feel like in my soul because I have experienced them so often in these times alone with him. I typically invest 1–2 hours a day alone with God.
For much of my life, regrettably, I did not always carry God’s presence with me throughout the day, even though I was a pastor and an editor of Christian publications. I could have a great hour alone with God in the morning but then go all day without pausing to pray again.
I could fall into lingering fear, selfishness, resentment, or despair.
Learning to practice God’s presence has changed that.
Catching fire
In recent years there has been another strong influence on how I practice God’s presence. I’ve learned from several people much more about how to walk in God’s anointing.
Essentially this involves expressing ongoing verbal praise and thanksgiving throughout the day when possible, with a conscious effort to tune into God and maintain a sense of his presence.
Here is what that looks like. As I walk down the sidewalk, or wash dishes, or take a shower, or have some other unfocused time, you will hear me singing quietly, or saying phrases like “Hallelujah, thank you, Lord, hallelujah, praise you, Father, for your mercy, hallelujah, holy, holy, holy is the Lord” and so on, or praying in tongues.
And with this praying, there is urgency, intensity, fire, passion. Connection with God.
I learned this by praying with others and sensing their spirit. This too is God’s presence.
It is more than a thought about God, but a feeling for God that is expressed verbally. And it is more than human emotion, for God’s Spirit inhabits our praises.
The Spirit of God flows like a river and burns like a fire.
Footnote
I believe strongly in the truths of the Reformation, that we are justified by grace alone, through faith alone, in Christ alone.
Are you finding it hard to know what to pray all day? Here is how to prevent boredom and repetition when you pause often during the day to talk to God.
Those who decide they want to practice God’s presence by pausing frequently during the day for brief prayers can run into a problem. What do you pray all day? After a while how do you keep from feeling bored and repetitious? How do you maintain this?
The answer is to use the full gamut of prayers described in the Bible. This article lists 12 kinds of prayer you can do briefly.
12 Ways to Pray
Express your love and devotion. This is a four-word pause: “Lord, I love you.” Or extend the prayer by telling why you love him. God wants to hear this all the time. He is affectionate and delights to receive your affection. Jesus said the first commandment is to “love the Lord your God with all your heart” (Mark 12:30, italics added).
Affirm your trust. Your faith is of ultimate importance to God. He delights in it. So we say things like, “Lord, I trust in you.” “I will not fear.” “You are my provider.” “You are my rock, my shield, my fortress, my deliverer.”
Give thanks. Once we adopt a grateful attitude, we find unlimited things large and small for which to thank God. He enjoys hearing every one. He never tires of it, never says, Enough already with thanksgiving.
Ask for help. Express your dependence on God, as in “Lord, I need you. Help me do this.” God doesn’t want us to rely on ourselves in anything. Ask for help in every part and project of the day, no matter how small.
Dedicate what you have and are doing to the Lord. This is a statement of purpose. “Lord, I am vacuuming the house now for you.” “Lord, I dedicate my body to you and your glory.”
Declare faith in God’s promises. In this we go beyond a statement of trust to affirm our belief in specific promises in Scripture about how God acts toward his people. “God will give me victory in this trial.” “The Lord is my healer.” “My God says, ‘I will never leave you or forsake you.’” “The Lord will supply all my needs according to his glorious riches in Christ Jesus.” “I can do everything through him who gives me strength.” God delights to hear that we believe his Words are true, and he wants us to speak confidence in his words even if we are struggling to feel it in the moment.
Praise the Lord. Take pleasure in him. Recount the various aspects of God’s glorious character, nature, and works. We can learn how to do this especially from the Book of Psalms. “You are my God.” “You are my Father.” “I praise you, O God, for you are my Savior, my rock, my king, my helper, my peace, my strength, my comforter, my advocate.” “Hallelujah! Praise the Lord, the Mighty One, the Holy One!”
Everything God has done is available to us for praise. “God, I praise you that you parted the Red Sea.” “Jesus, I praise you that death could not hold you in the grave.”
Surrender everything. Whether for the first time or the hundredth, give what you value to God. “Lord, I surrender all my money and savings to you. It is yours. I am a steward of it.” “Lord, I surrender my family again today to you. They are yours.” We also surrender jobs, possessions, body, abilities, time periods.
Confess and repent of sin. In the course of every day we think and feel, say and do, wrong things. As soon as we realize it, we should confess them to God and ask forgiveness. Then ask him to help us turn from sin and walk uprightly. “Lord, I confess feeling resentment toward my friend just now. Forgive me and help me to love and help her.” We can pray this sincerely in 10 seconds, and if we feel a transgression was so serious that we need to talk more about it with God, we can do so later in the day when we have time.
When tempted, ask Jesus to help you overcome. In this case, we are praying before we sin. It is when we most want to sin that we least want to pray, but it is not a sin to be tempted. Even Jesus was tempted. So no matter how strongly we feel the urge to sin, we bring it to God and ask him to keep us from succumbing. Hebrews 2:18 says, “Because he himself has suffered when tempted, he is able to help those who are being tempted.”
When ill, ask for healing. Whether we are suffering the minor aches, pains, and chronic ailments that beset our bodies, or a serious cold, or a life-threatening disease, God wants us to bring them all to him as often as we feel the need. He ultimately is our healer, while doctors and medicines are means that he chooses to use and bless. But he wants and deserves the glory for all healing, and he wants us to depend ultimately on him for it. So bring every headache, indigestion, or serious disease to him in prayer.
When tired or weak, ask for strength. One of the more frequent promises in Scripture is that God is the strength of his people. That means God can give us emotional, physical, and spiritual strength that is not from natural sources, but from the Holy Spirit. It is supernatural. So we pray things like, “Lord, give me emotional strength to have this difficult talk with me employer.”
When you know what to pray
When you use all 12 prayers, you will find you have an unlimited number of brief prayers to fill your day to overflowing, and God’s presence will be real and regular.
If you were to add another kind of prayer to this list, what would it be? Share it below in the comments.
Your soul has a big appetite. A filling meal is on the table. You can find spiritual satisfaction.
