We must pray for wisdom with faith because a double-minded person will not receive anything from the Lord. Here is how you can develop the necessary faith.
The most encouraging verse in the Bible about praying for wisdom is James 1:5. “If any of you lacks wisdom, let him ask God, who gives generously to all without reproach, and it will be given him” (ESV).
However, it is immediately followed by a warning that might make you lose heart. “But let him ask in faith, with no doubting, for the one who doubts is like a wave of the sea that is driven and tossed by the wind. For that person must not suppose that he will receive anything from the Lord; he is a double-minded man, unstable in all his ways.” (James 1:6–8)
Knowing that an answer to prayer depends on your faith can make you lose faith! If everything depends on God, we can be confident because we know he is reliable. But if something depends on us, we can despair because we know how far short we fall of perfection, especially perfect faith. And we know how our emotions can ride a roller coaster.
There is no way around it, though. If you want to learn how to pray for wisdom for everything that matters to you, you must learn to pray with faith.
And you can do it.
You can pray for wisdom with faith
Again, you can do it. God will help you if you will enter the school of faith. Depending on how strong or weak your faith is now, it may take a while to learn to pray for wisdom with faith, but you can and will learn if you depend on God and persevere.
Praying for wisdom is an outstanding exercise for developing the muscle of faith. You build faith by using it, by going through the ups and downs of having faith for a request but then losing it—but not giving up. You again press in to God’s promises to regain faith. And you may go through that cycle many times, but if you do not quit, if you do not give up in despair, if you come back to your senses—to the bedrock reality that God is absolutely faithful—and keep choosing to believe God’s Word, you will find that the episodes of doubt come less often and are weaker and weaker.
Meanwhile your foundation of faith gets deeper and deeper, stronger and stronger, to the point where faith dominates your soul. And finally you come to the place where, changing the metaphor, all the oxygen for doubt is gone. Doubt suffocates and dies. And the only thing left standing and breathing is indomitable faith.
That is your future, my friend, if you will enter into the school of regularly praying for wisdom and staying at it until wisdom enters your heart (Proverbs 2:10).
Day one is decisive
Daniel 10:12 shows one key principle of faith. In previous posts in this series we saw that an angel appeared to Daniel, who for three weeks had been earnestly inquiring of God for wisdom. The angel said:
“Fear not, Daniel, for from the first day that you set your heart to understand and humbled yourself before your God, your words have been heard, and I have come because of your words” (Daniel 10:12).
There is a crucial principle about how to pray for wisdom with faith: believe that the moment you pray God has heard you. Notice the past tense: “From the first day…your words have been heard.”
That is not unique to this verse in Daniel. In the New Testament God promises this to all Christians as we pray according to his will. First John 5:14–15 says, “This is the confidence that we have toward him, that if we ask anything according to his will he hears us. And if we know that he hears us in whatever we ask, we know that we have the requests that we have asked of him.” Again we see that the answer comes when we pray.
Jesus himself states this truth. “Whatever you ask in prayer, believe that you have received it, and it will be yours” (Mark 11:24). In the past tense you received it, and in the future tense it will be yours. So God has heard your request and determined to give you the wisdom you seek, but he may not do so immediately, or even soon. You have to keep faith that God has heard you for as long as he in his wisdom requires.
You can do it with his help. He will give you grace, for he delights in your faith.
Your words are decisive
I love the last few words from the angel in Daniel 10:12: “your words have been heard, and I have come because of your words.”
Do you recognize the weight of your own words? Do you realize how much attention God pays to your words, how much spiritual glory and power they have? And do you appreciate how decisive your words are in God’s sight?
Granted, some teachers, both Christian and non-Christian, have taken this to an extreme, but do not overreact to unbiblical extremes to the point that you lose the reality clearly taught in Scripture. Words that accord with the will of God are the currency of his kingdom. Pray for wisdom with faith that your words are heard in heaven—and it is done (James 1:5–8).
Jeremiah 9:23–24: “Thus says the LORD: ‘Let not the wise man boast in his wisdom, let not the mighty man boast in his might, let not the rich man boast in his riches, but let him who boasts boast in this, that he understands and knows me, that I am the LORD who practices steadfast love, justice, and righteousness in the earth. For in these things I delight, declares the LORD.’” (ESV)
We should pray for wisdom without presumption about how God will answer, because he answers prayers in countless different ways and at times we do not expect.
If you are like me, you head into a time of asking God for wisdom with a hope about how and when he will answer. If I fast and pray and clear my calendar to do nothing but seek him with a listening ear, surely he will give me the wisdom I seek that day, hopefully within a few hours.
Moreover, my earnest hope is that I will “hear God.” That is, that words and thoughts will form in my mind with a clarity and emphasis that could suggest these thoughts are from God rather than me, giving the answer I seek. Or I will read the Bible and fall upon verses that leap off the page with exactly what I need to do. Or that day someone will say something to me that providentially, unknown to him, is “the word of the Lord.”
Disappointed
Expectations like these are why I am usually disappointed on the day I seek God earnestly for wisdom. I have heard plenty of stories by people who have such experiences, but they are rare for me, and strangely, seem more rare the older I get. I suggest you do not base your expectations on my experiences, but if you can identify with me, let them encourage you. If God does not give prompt, clear direction when you seek him for guidance and counsel, you are not unusual.
For this reason I strongly counsel you to pray for wisdom without trying to control how God answers. Have an open mind to how and when he will give the wisdom you seek. He almost certainly will not do as you expect, and he probably will answer every new request for wisdom differently than how he has answered previous inquiries. God likes variety.
You never know
For example, look in the Gospels at all the different ways Jesus healed people. He might lay his hand on the sick person, or merely speak a healing command, or spit on the ground to make mud and apply it to the blind eyes, or stick his fingers in deaf ears, or spit on his finger and touch a mute tongue, or healing virtue would flow to those who touched his cloak.
When we pray for wisdom, there are countless situations through which God can breathe the answer. A book. A conversation. A wise mentor. Your evaluation of recent efforts. A dream. Your analytical thinking or research. Prayer. Reading the Bible. A seminar, webinar, conference. Practice. Your gradual, one-percent improvement each time you do what you are trying to learn and seek to improve for the next time.
Or through an angel. Okay, that might not be the most likely answer, but that is how Daniel received his answer in Daniel 10. Again, you never know, and you probably cannot guess. God surprises us if we pray with faith and keep the faith for as long as necessary (James 1:5–8).
Keeping Faith
As I said in a previous post, I have been focused in prayer for over three years on getting wisdom for how to win converts and enfold them in our church. God has taught me much in that time, but I have not yet had the breakthrough insights I need.
Nevertheless, I know they are coming, for I believe. (James 1:5–8, Matthew 21:22, which literally reads, “All things whatever you ask in prayer, believing, you will receive.”) Scripture calls Abraham the man of faith (Galatians 3:9, ESV), and he had to wait decades for some answers, and longer for others, even hundreds of years after he died.
Daniel had to wait three weeks for the wisdom he sought (Daniel 10:13). But the reason he had to wait was the angelic messenger bearing his answer faced satanic interference that delayed him. Otherwise Daniel would have had his answer promptly (Daniel 10:12). That tells me there are innumerable reasons unknown to us why an answer to our prayer can be delayed. And there are innumerable means God may use to give the answer. God sent an angel to Daniel, and he may send a human to give your answer. It could be anyone, communicating in any way, in-person or through any media.
Pray for Wisdom without Presumption
Therefore it is essential that you maintain your faith and keep seeking an answer (through prayer, research, practice, or however) for as long as necessary. Do not presume to require God to answer in a particular way.
Be open, flexible, persistent. Keep exploring, seeking.
And stay alert to what may be the divine answer you seek. In other words, if you are tending sheep in the desert and see a bush on fire that keeps burning and is not consumed, turn aside and pay attention (Exodus 3). Since I am seeking wisdom for effective evangelism, I should take notice if someone I know says out of the blue, “I just read a tremendous book on evangelism, and I am already seeing fruit from what I learned in it.”
Pray for wisdom without presumption about how God will answer. I am not disappointed when I pray for wisdom with faith and persistence and do not require that God answer me in extraordinary ways. His wisdom sooner or later enters my heart (Proverbs 2:10).
And remember, learning to pray for wisdom for everything that matters to you is an important way to know God practically, in daily experience, as someone you can rely on to help you. Knowing God and his ways is not just an intellectual experience; it is also a lived out experience of prayer, trust, and dependence. If we know how to explain God doctrinally but do not know how to depend on him for what we need in life, we are missing something important and wonderful.
Jeremiah 9:23–24: “Thus says the LORD: ‘Let not the wise man boast in his wisdom, let not the mighty man boast in his might, let not the rich man boast in his riches, but let him who boasts boast in this, that he understands and knows me, that I am the LORD who practices steadfast love, justice, and righteousness in the earth. For in these things I delight, declares the LORD.’” (ESV)
When you pray for wisdom earnestly, you signal to God that you mean business and you believe God is your true source.
In this post we continue to draw principles about praying for wisdom from Daniel 10 and James 1:5. The first principle was that we should set our heart to understand. The second principle was that we should humble ourselves before God. The third principle is that we should pray earnestly.
We need to pray
We need to actually pray. In a knowledge culture like ours, in which we have how-to videos on YouTube on every subject imaginable, as well as webinars, books, apps, freelance experts, and university courses in abundance, it is easy to focus our attention there first. We may not feel as though we need to ask God as though it all depends on him; we just need to research the subject. Research feels as though it gives quicker, clearer, more tangible results. We control the process. The steps toward our goal are clear before us: read this book, take that class, follow this formula.
Earnest prayer, on the other hand, can feel like an open-ended waste of time. We can feel as though we aren’t doing anything. And most of us would not say we get into a real dialogue with God in which he speaks unmistakably to us with the wisdom we seek, or as Daniel experienced, have an angel come and coach us. We present our request, and we wait. We conclude our praying often feeling no closer to an answer. There is much that is unknown, except by faith.
We need God more than wisdom
Nevertheless, as we pursue wisdom, we need to pray like we mean business. Prayer must be the foundation of our pursuit just as a well-built house must have a foundation. James 4:2 says, “You do not have, because you do not ask God.”
God does not appreciate being ignored. Everything, including wisdom, is “from him and through him and to him” (Romans 11:36). “The LORD gives wisdom; from his mouth come knowledge and understanding” (Proverbs 2:6). Even if he uses a coach or a book as his means to impart crucial wisdom to us, our situation and who we are in our personality and abilities differ from the person from whom we are learning. Unless God blesses the wisdom, unless he reveals to us how to use it effectively, unless he works in the situation and people around us, the wisdom we learn from others will not get the results they had. We need God and his hand upon us, not merely wisdom.
And thus we need to pray to him. Earnest prayer signals to God that we truly believe we cannot do anything without him. We believe what Jesus said: “I am the vine; you are the branches. Whoever abides in me and I in him, he it is that bears much fruit, for apart from me you can do nothing” (John 15:5).
We need to pray for wisdom earnestly
Daniel’s example also shows the value of earnest prayer. Daniel said, “In those days I, Daniel, was mourning for three weeks. I ate no delicacies, no meat or wine entered my mouth, nor did I anoint myself at all, for the full three weeks” (Daniel 10:2–3).
We see Daniel’s earnestness in his partial fasting from certain foods and physical comforts and in the three-week duration of his focused seeking of God with his question.
Hebrews 11:6 says, “Without faith it is impossible to please him, for whoever would draw near to God must believe that he exists and that he rewards those who seek him” (ESV). Other translations say, “he rewards those who earnestly seek him” (NIV) or “diligently seek him” (NKJV) or “sincerely seek him” (NLT).
We do not have to fast to receive wisdom from God, but it can only help. The greater is our need for wisdom, and the more difficult that wisdom has been to get, the more sense it makes to fast and wait on God for extended periods as we “set our hearts to understand” (Daniel 10:12) a question.
I do not enjoy fasting (taking no food and drinking only water), and I rarely do it for longer than 20 hours, but I love the results. It gives spiritual focus and clarity like nothing else. For me it is the ultimate way to set my heart to understand. Daniel shows that partial fasting is also an effective way to earnestly seek the Lord.
Fasting is not a silver bullet
I caution, though, against fasting with any thought that by it we can manipulate God. Fasting is not a hunger strike, nor can we use it to twist God’s arm. God answers prayer according to his will, in his time, in his way—even if we torture ourselves with fasting for years! The purpose of fasting is to humble yourself, focus your mind, clear your spirit, and to signal to God that you are serious, that you are seeking him with all your heart and soul about this matter.
Sometimes God is looking for that. Deuteronomy 4:29 says, “But from there you will seek the LORD your God and you will find him, if you search after him with all your heart and with all your soul.”
If you fast and pray for part or all of a day but do not receive the wisdom you seek during that time, you must not feel that “it didn’t work” or you wasted your time. Rather, that day laid the foundation for the answer, or added more floors to the foundation already laid. It is part of the process all of which God intends for your good. He has a reason for extending the process. He may be testing your faith.
Hebrews 10:35–36 says, “Therefore do not throw away your confidence, which has a great reward. For you have need of endurance, so that when you have done the will of God you may receive what is promised.”
Take it by faith that you have the answer (1 John 5:14–15) and that God’s wisdom will enter your heart (Proverbs 2:10) in his perfect timing.
Jeremiah 9:23–24: “Thus says the LORD: ‘Let not the wise man boast in his wisdom, let not the mighty man boast in his might, let not the rich man boast in his riches, but let him who boasts boast in this, that he understands and knows me, that I am the LORD who practices steadfast love, justice, and righteousness in the earth. For in these things I delight, declares the LORD.’” (ESV)
“Fear not, Daniel, for from the first day that you set your heart to understand and humbled yourself before your God, your words have been heard, and I have come because of your words” (Daniel 10:12).
Last week we drew from the well of this Scripture the first principle of inquiring of God for wisdom: you must set your heart to understand.
Principle 2: Pray for wisdom humbly
The next principle in Daniel 10:12 of asking for wisdom is to humble yourself before your God, as the angel said Daniel had done. Humility is needed because James 4:6 says, “God opposes the proud but gives grace to the humble.” Wisdom is a grace from God, and therefore we need humility to receive it.
Daniel humbled himself by fasting. Daniel 10:2–3 says, “In those days I, Daniel, was mourning for three weeks. I ate no delicacies, no meat or wine entered my mouth, nor did I anoint myself at all, for the full three weeks.” He denied himself pleasure and comfort, and his purpose in this was to humble himself.
But humility is the point, not fasting. Fasting is good and helpful, but not without sincere humility as its motive and purpose.
That’s because a person can fast with pride and self-righteousness. Luke 18:9–14 says, “[Jesus] also told this parable to some who trusted in themselves that they were righteous, and treated others with contempt: ‘Two men went up into the temple to pray, one a Pharisee and the other a tax collector. The Pharisee, standing by himself, prayed thus: “God, I thank you that I am not like other men, extortioners, unjust, adulterers, or even like this tax collector. I fast twice a week; I give tithes of all that I get.” But the tax collector, standing far off, would not even lift up his eyes to heaven, but beat his breast, saying, “God, be merciful to me, a sinner!” I tell you, this man went down to his house justified, rather than the other. For everyone who exalts himself will be humbled, but the one who humbles himself will be exalted.’”
In this parable Jesus calls our attention to the importance of sincere humility and its effect. Although the Pharisee fasted, and prayed in the temple, he was arrogant. The tax collector was truly humble even though Jesus said nothing about whether he was fasting.
So the point is sincere humility. God exalts the humble. To them he gives grace.
Ways to humble yourself
Attitudes and actions commonly associated in the Bible with self-humbling include:
Confessing and repenting of sin. (James 4:6–10)
Kneeling and bowing before God. (Psalm 95:6–7)
Worshiping and thanking God. (Romans 11:33–36; 1 Corinthians 15:10)
Acknowledging need, inability, and dependence on God. (John 15:4–8)
Fasting. (Ezra 8:21; Daniel 10)
Serving others. (John 13:1–5; 12–17)
Considering others more significant. (Philippians 2:3–11)
Surrendering prerogatives and taking a low estate. (Philippians 2:5–8)
Obeying God’s commands. (John 15:5–10; Isaiah 58)
Being correctible and teachable. (Psalm 32:8–9; 81:10–12)
Submitting to others. (Ephesians 5:21)
Submitting to those in authority. (1 Peter 5:5)
Enduring suffering patiently. (1 Peter 5:6–10)
All the above are relevant as we seek to humble ourselves before God and receive from him the gracious gift of wisdom.
Jeremiah 9:23–24: “Thus says the LORD: ‘Let not the wise man boast in his wisdom, let not the mighty man boast in his might, let not the rich man boast in his riches, but let him who boasts boast in this, that he understands and knows me, that I am the LORD who practices steadfast love, justice, and righteousness in the earth. For in these things I delight, declares the LORD.’” (ESV)
To learn how to pray for wisdom we turn to an expert. The prophet Daniel had much experience in praying for wisdom as a powerful and successful government official for decades in the superpowers of Babylon and Persia. We look now at a story in Daniel 10 where he shows us the first principle of praying for wisdom successfully.
The chapter opens with Daniel earnestly seeking the Lord, but we are not told why. “In those days I, Daniel, was mourning for three weeks. I ate no delicacies, no meat or wine entered my mouth, nor did I anoint myself at all, for the full three weeks” (Daniel 10:2–3).
(The first principle of praying for wisdom is not fasting. You can breathe a sigh of relief.)
For 21 days Daniel is not conducting a total fast but rather is denying himself certain comforts and pleasures. Then he has a vision. An angel appears to him, and he is physically and mentally overwhelmed. The angel says something to Daniel that provides a crucial principle for those seeking wisdom:
“Fear not, Daniel, for from the first day that you set your heart to understand and humbled yourself before your God, your words have been heard, and I have come because of your words” (Daniel 10:12).
How the prophet Daniel prayed for wisdom
Note the angel’s words, “you set your heart to understand.” I regard that as the first principle of praying for wisdom successfully. For whatever wisdom you need, you must set your heart to understand.
This speaks of determination and persistence. Of setting a clear goal and having a specific focus. You know exactly what you want God to teach you, and you are doing all you can to learn.
For several years, as a minister of the gospel of Jesus Christ in downtown Chicago, I have been praying daily, “Lord, give me wisdom how to win converts and enfold them in our church as sincere disciples.” I have also been praying, “Give me wisdom how to inquire of you for wisdom successfully.” I am determined. I am working hard on this. I will not give up. With every passing month I am more focused. (I have made significant progress on both requests, and I think I am on the verge of a breakthrough.)
The size and scale of your request
Of course, our prayers for wisdom come in all sizes. We can pray for small or daily matters, and God answers our requests quickly. “Lord, give me wisdom for my conversation with my supervisor at work about how to improve morale on our team.” We pray, we enter the situation with faith, and behold we find that God works wonderful things. He answered our prayer.
But then there are other situations of greater scale, scope, or difficulty, which do not yield to one prayer for wisdom. These require greater determination, focus, and perseverance. You must “set your heart to understand.”
What you are praying for may involve a process, even a long process. For Daniel in this case it took three weeks for him to receive the wisdom he sought. He did not know why it took that long. It was not because of any fault on his part; in fact, the angel commends him as a “man greatly loved” by God (verse 11). It turns out that the delay resulted from a great, invisible conflict occurring behind the scenes in the spiritual world (verses 12–13, 20–21).
Patience
So “setting your heart to understand” means you are prepared to have patience. Without patience you will be disappointed in many requests, and perhaps even become disillusioned and fall into unbelief regarding the promise of James 1:5.
For example, the psalmist faulted the Israelites when they were in the desert, lacking food and water—and thus needing wisdom. He writes: “They soon forgot his works; they did not wait for his counsel. But they had a wanton craving in the wilderness, and put God to the test in the desert” (Psalm 106:13–14). (See Exodus chapters 15–17.)
The Israelites had a legitimate need for food and water, but they allowed their desire to become a “wanton craving,” that is, an excessive desire, an out-of-control desire, an all-consuming, impatient craving that demanded an immediate answer and tested God by attempting to force him to act as they wanted. This wanton craving was marked by unbelief and distrust toward God.
You must not do that when you pray for wisdom. You must be determined but patient. Be prepared: Some of your requests may not be answered for days, weeks, months, years, or even decades, as God in his wisdom works out what is best suited for your highest good and his greatest glory. As always when it comes to prayer, God answers in his time, in his way, according to his will.
Let’s continue next week looking at how the prophet Daniel prayed for wisdom.
Jeremiah 9:23–24: “Thus says the LORD: ‘Let not the wise man boast in his wisdom, let not the mighty man boast in his might, let not the rich man boast in his riches, but let him who boasts boast in this, that he understands and knows me, that I am the LORD who practices steadfast love, justice, and righteousness in the earth. For in these things I delight, declares the LORD.’” (ESV)
The Bible has dozens of verses that show God’s willingness to give wisdom.
This new series rests on the inviting promise of James 1:5: “If any of you lacks wisdom, let him ask God, who gives generously to all without reproach, and it will be given him” (ESV).
It sounds too good to be true. Does God really want me to pray and believe for wisdom about everything that matters to me? My answer is yes, God wants to give us wisdom and wants us to pray and believe for it. I say that for four reasons.
1. God faults those who fail to inquire of him as they make decisions and manage their lives.
Isaiah says, “Should not a people inquire of their God?” (Isaiah 8:19) The prophet was faulting those who consulted instead with mediums and necromancers.
Jeremiah, bluntly rebuking the leaders of Israel, says, “The shepherds are stupid and do not inquire of the LORD; therefore they have not prospered, and all their flock is scattered” (Jeremiah 10:21).
At one point in Israel’s conquest of the Promised Land under Joshua’s leadership, one of the nations of the land, called Gibeonites, who were under God’s decree of extermination for their wickedness, sought to deceive them. The Gibeonites sent to the army of Israel a delegation who acted as though they had traveled from a distant land to make a treaty with them. God had forbidden Israel from making treaties with the residents of the Promised Land, though they could do so with neighboring countries.
The ruse of the Gibeonites rested on their giving the appearance of having traveled a great distance. They “took worn-out sacks for their donkeys, and wineskins, worn-out and torn and mended, with worn-out, patched sandals on their feet, and worn-out clothes. And all their provisions were dry and crumbly.” (Joshua 9:4–5)
They rode into the camp of Israel and asked the leaders to make a covenant of peace. “We are your servants,” the Gibeonites meekly concluded.
But Joshua was suspicious. “Who are you? And where do you come from?” he asked.
They replied, “From a very distant country your servants have come, because of the name of the LORD your God…. Here is our bread. It was still warm when we took it from our houses as our food for the journey on the day we set out to come to you, but now, behold, it is dry and crumbly. These wineskins were new when we filled them, and behold, they have burst. And these garments and sandals of ours are worn out from the very long journey.” So the men took some of their provisions, but did not ask counsel from the LORD. And Joshua made peace with them.” (Joshua 9:9, 12–15)
Joshua’s decision was wrong—even though he was a godly man—because he and the leaders of Israel used their own judgment instead of inquiring of God.
In Jeremiah’s day, the false prophets did not consult the Lord. The Lord rebukes them, asking, “Who among them has stood in the council of the LORD to see and to hear his word, or who has paid attention to his word and listened?” (Jeremiah 23:18) The answer, of course, was none of them had sought God’s counsel. God’s question shows what he expected from a true prophet.
Psalm 106 tells the history of God’s merciful work among the Israelites and their many failures in response. The psalm reveals how Israel could act with unbelief toward God after he had showed his benevolence toward them by judging Egypt with great plagues and then bringing Israel through the Red Sea on dry ground: “They soon forgot his works; they did not wait for his counsel. But they had a wanton craving in the wilderness, and put God to the test in the desert” (Psalm 106:13–14).
Again and again in the desert, the Israelites made bad choices because they did not wait for God’s counsel but instead impulsively followed their own desires.
Isaiah 9:13–16 says, “The people did not turn to him who struck them, nor inquire of the LORD of hosts. So the LORD cut off from Israel head and tail, palm branch and reed in one day.” The situation here is that God was punishing Israel with troubles for their stubborn, unrepentant sinfulness, but Israel never bothered to ask him why these troubles had come upon them.
So we see God’s willingness to give wisdom in how he paints in a negative light those who fail to ask for it. We also see that he wants to give us wisdom in his many invitations to seek it.
2. God gives many promises and examples that show his willingness to teach and counsel us.
Both the Old and New Testaments assure us of God’s pleasure in giving his children wisdom.
Psalm 16:7 says, “I bless the LORD who gives me counsel; in the night also my heart instructs me.”
Psalm 32:8 says, “I will instruct you and teach you in the way you should go; I will counsel you with my eye upon you.”
Psalm 73:24 says, “You guide me with your counsel, and afterward you will receive me to glory”
Psalm 119:24 says, “Your testimonies are my delight; they are my counselors.”
Proverbs 2:6 says, “The LORD gives wisdom; from his mouth come knowledge and understanding.”
Proverbs 8:12, 17 says, “[12] I, wisdom, dwell with prudence, and I find knowledge and discretion…. [17] I love those who love me, and those who seek me diligently find me.”
Isaiah 9:6 says, “To us a child is born, to us a son is given; and the government shall be upon his shoulder, and his name shall be called Wonderful Counselor, Mighty God, Everlasting Father, Prince of Peace.”
Isaiah 28:24–29 says, “[24] Does he who plows for sowing plow continually? Does he continually open and harrow his ground? [25] When he has leveled its surface, does he not scatter dill, sow cumin, and put in wheat in rows and barley in its proper place, and emmer as the border? [26] For he is rightly instructed; his God teaches him. [27] Dill is not threshed with a threshing sledge, nor is a cart wheel rolled over cumin, but dill is beaten out with a stick, and cumin with a rod. [28] Does one crush grain for bread? No, he does not thresh it forever; when he drives his cart wheel over it with his horses, he does not crush it. [29] This also comes from the LORD of hosts; he is wonderful in counsel and excellent in wisdom.”
Isaiah 48:17 says, “Thus says the LORD, your Redeemer, the Holy One of Israel: ‘I am the LORD your God, who teaches you to profit, who leads you in the way you should go.’”
Jeremiah 33:3 says, “Call to me and I will answer you, and will tell you great and hidden things that you have not known.”
Daniel 2:17–23 says, “Then Daniel went to his house and made the matter known to Hananiah, Mishael, and Azariah, his companions, and told them to seek mercy from the God of heaven concerning this mystery, so that Daniel and his companions might not be destroyed with the rest of the wise men of Babylon. Then the mystery was revealed to Daniel in a vision of the night. Then Daniel blessed the God of heaven. Daniel answered and said: ‘Blessed be the name of God forever and ever, to whom belong wisdom and might. He changes times and seasons; he removes kings and sets up kings; he gives wisdom to the wise and knowledge to those who have understanding; he reveals deep and hidden things; he knows what is in the darkness, and the light dwells with him. To you, O God of my fathers, I give thanks and praise, for you have given me wisdom and might, and have now made known to me what we asked of you, for you have made known to us the king’s matter.’”
Daniel 2:28 says, “There is a God in heaven who reveals mysteries.”
Matthew 7:7 says, “Ask, and it will be given to you; seek, and you will find; knock, and it will be opened to you.”
Matthew 23:10 says, “You have one instructor, the Christ.”
Philippians 3:15 says, “Let those of us who are mature think this way, and if in anything you think otherwise, God will reveal that also to you.”
2 Timothy 2:7 says, “Think over what I say, for the Lord will give you understanding in everything.”
James 1:5 says, “If any of you lacks wisdom, let him ask God, who gives generously to all without reproach, and it will be given him.”
1 John 2:27 says, “The anointing that you received from him abides in you, and you have no need that anyone should teach you. But as his anointing teaches you about everything, and is true, and is no lie—just as it has taught you, abide in him.”
So we see God’s willingness to give wisdom in many promises and examples. We also see that he wants to give wisdom because he tells us to ask for it.
3. God tells us to pray for wisdom.
Having wisdom is not automatic or guaranteed to all. If we do not have it, that does not mean he does not want to give it to us. Rather, the Lord tells us wisdom comes to those who ask for it.
James 1:5 says, “If any of you lacks wisdom, let him ask God, who gives generously to all without reproach, and it will be given him.”
Matthew 7:7 says, “Ask, and it will be given to you; seek, and you will find; knock, and it will be opened to you.”
Jeremiah 33:3 says, “Call to me and I will answer you, and will tell you great and hidden things that you have not known.”
Daniel 2:17–19 says, “Then Daniel went to his house and made the matter known to Hananiah, Mishael, and Azariah, his companions, and told them to seek mercy from the God of heaven concerning this mystery, so that Daniel and his companions might not be destroyed with the rest of the wise men of Babylon. Then the mystery was revealed to Daniel in a vision of the night.”
So we see God’s willingness to give wisdom in his instructions to pray.
4. God tells us not only to pray, but to believe for wisdom.
Prayer is necessary, but it is not enough. Our prayers must be mixed with faith that God will answer.
James 1:5–8 says, “[5] If any of you lacks wisdom, let him ask God, who gives generously to all without reproach, and it will be given him. [6] But let him ask in faith, with no doubting, for the one who doubts is like a wave of the sea that is driven and tossed by the wind. [7] For that person must not suppose that he will receive anything from the Lord; [8] he is a double-minded man, unstable in all his ways.”
We often need wisdom immediately, and God grants it. At other times, we may pray for weeks, months, or years for wisdom until it comes. We must have the faith to persist until our prayer is answered.
How do you build up the faith necessary? You memorize the Scriptures in this article and meditate on them, which will take months. I have done it, and so can you. To maintain them in your memory, you will periodically have to review and refresh them. That is good, because each time you say them, they build your faith.
Conclusion: Never doubt God’s willingness to give wisdom
God wants to give you the wisdom and understanding you need for your job, marriage, child-raising, finances, health, emotions, ministry, goals, trials, prayers, sanctification, and any other holy thing that matters to you, frustrates you, or eludes you. Most importantly, in the process you can learn to know God better.
Jeremiah 9:23–24: “Thus says the LORD: ‘Let not the wise man boast in his wisdom, let not the mighty man boast in his might, let not the rich man boast in his riches, but let him who boasts boast in this, that he understands and knows me, that I am the LORD who practices steadfast love, justice, and righteousness in the earth. For in these things I delight, declares the LORD.’” (ESV)
The ultimate goal of Christ-centered wisdom is not a method to get what you want.
Jesus needed to solve a tax problem. When he came to Capernaum on one occasion, the collectors of the two-drachma tax approached Peter with their hands out.
Apparently Jesus and his disciples did not have the money, and so he needed wisdom, which can be defined as understanding how to solve a problem, do something successfully, accomplish a purpose, or reach a goal. Wisdom is not just knowledge; it is knowledge you can use to some benefit.
Jesus told Peter, “Go to the sea and cast a hook and take the first fish that comes up, and when you open its mouth you will find a shekel. Take that and give it to them for me and for yourself” (Matthew 17:27).
This is one extraordinary example of the divine benefit that comes from knowing how to do something. On the other hand, we can find hundreds of ordinary examples of wisdom in the Book of Proverbs, which tell us how to manage our finances, families, and much else successfully. Whether God provides wisdom in an ordinary or extraordinary way, Scripture promises, “A wise man is full of strength, and a man of knowledge enhances his might” (Proverbs 24:5).
Dangers of wisdom
As beneficial as wisdom is, however, the pursuit of wisdom also has its dangers. For instance, consider Solomon. As a new and young king who had recently inherited the throne of his father David, he knew he faced many challenges. He had rivals within his own family, and the nations surrounding Israel were not friendly.
One day God appeared to Solomon in a dream and said, “Ask what I shall give you” (1 Kings 3:5).
What an exciting offer! How tempting it must have been to ask for riches, long life, or the death of his enemies. But Solomon did not. Instead he said:
“O LORD my God, you have made your servant king in place of David my father, although I am but a little child. I do not know how to go out or come in. And your servant is in the midst of your people whom you have chosen, a great people, too many to be numbered or counted for multitude. Give your servant therefore an understanding mind to govern your people, that I may discern between good and evil, for who is able to govern this your great people?” (1 Kings 3:7–9)
Solomon’s downfall
The Lord granted his request, and Solomon accomplished much, grew unimaginably wealthy, and ruled a golden age of peace in Israel. Nevertheless, his life is a tragedy, for he did not end well. Apparently he thought he was smart enough to be able to get away with disobeying God’s commands without paying the consequences. Ignoring the commands of the Lord, he married foreign women who led him into idolatry, the fundamental sin of the human soul. (See 1 Kings 11.)
The sin of idolatry—the sin of loving and serving something other than God like God, treating some thing or person as though it were ultimate, substituting the created things of this world for the place in our heart that only God should have—is the great temptation of those who seek wisdom. In fact, the original temptation in the Garden of Eden was to eat from the tree of the knowledge of good and evil. Genesis 3:6 says, “When the woman saw that the tree was good for food, and that it was a delight to the eyes, and that the tree was to be desired to make one wise, she took of its fruit and ate.”
Eve is not alone in her desire to have wisdom apart from God. Even the most wicked people in the world want to solve problems, succeed in what they do, and reach their goals. Worldly people want power, and wisdom gives it.
And so, people both good and bad seek knowledge, methods, techniques, how-to guides, hacks, formulas, and steps that will help them succeed in what they want to do and be. They google for it, go to seminars and watch webinars for it, read books on. It may be driven by a godly desire, such as how to pray effectively, or by a worldly desire, such as how to become rich and famous. The desire for wisdom can be pleasing to God, or it can be an idolatrous desire to have something that replaces God at the center of one’s heart.
The wealth of Christ-centered wisdom
For this reason, it is essential that we pursue wisdom in a Christ-centered way. We need Christ-centered wisdom, not merely the secret to whatever. Christ-centered wisdom brings us closer to God rather than leading us away from him.
The apostle Paul told the Colossians, who were enamored with this world’s wisdom, “In [Christ] are hidden all the treasures of wisdom and knowledge” (Colossians 2:3).
Pause and let that sink in. It is not an exaggeration. All the wisdom and knowledge on all the websites, in all the books in all the libraries, in all the brains of all the people of the world is not even one trillionth of one percent of the wisdom and knowledge that are in Christ.
In particular
Through the treasures of Christ’s wisdom and knowledge he created and upholds everything that exists: every atomic and subatomic particle and element, every atom, molecule, proton, and neutron, every living cell, chromosome, DNA, and gene, every human person, every animal and plant, every insect and reptile, every star, planet, moon, asteroid, solar system, and galaxy.
Christ is the divine wisdom, the divine intelligence, the divine reason, the Logos, the Word of God through whom God spoke all things into existence and upholds all things in existence. (John 1:1–4, Hebrews 1:1–3, Genesis 1:1–3)
Through the treasures of Christ’s wisdom and knowledge he gave to Moses the Ten Commandments, the foundations of morality.
Through the treasures of Christ’s wisdom and knowledge he spoke the Beatitudes and the Sermon the Mount, the Parable of the Good Samaritan, the Parable of the Prodigal Son and his Gracious Father, the Parables of the Kingdom, and all the remaining Parables.
Because of the treasures of Christ’s wisdom and knowledge he is the vine and we are the branches. He is the Teacher, and we are his disciples. He is the Head, and we are his body.
In fact, although we learn much from books and human teachers, Jesus actually said, “You have one instructor, the Christ” (Matthew 23:10). In other words, ultimately all wisdom and knowledge come from him. Because of this verse, I make it a practice when I open a book to say: I thank you, Lord, for this book and its author, but I confess that ultimately I have only one instructor: the Christ. Teach me now through this book and author what you want me to know.
Five ingredients
On a practical level, then, how do we seek wisdom for everything that matters to us in a way that keeps it Christ-centered? Here are five suggestions.
1. Christ-centered wisdom trusts in Christ, not in the method. It knows that a method cannot accomplish anything apart from God’s blessing.
2. Christ-centered wisdom uses the method because it is given from Christ. The ultimate goal is to be in relationship with him through the process, not just to get what we desire.
3. Christ-centered wisdom begins with prayer to him that he will supply the needed understanding.
4. Christ-centered wisdom continues with prayer to him that he will help us implement the wisdom and that he will make the wisdom successful.
5. Christ-centered wisdom concludes the process with prayer by thanking him for his help and giving him the glory. Christ-centered wisdom gives credit to Christ, not to self, not to man, not to methods.
The wisdom of salvation in Christ
When we follow practices like this, Jesus will give us his wisdom in his time, in his way, according to his will. And this wisdom will rest firmly upon the most important wisdom of all, namely the wisdom that saves our souls. That most glorious of all wisdom comes only in the person of Christ, “who has become for us wisdom from God—that is, our righteousness, holiness and redemption” (1 Corinthians 1:30, NIV).
To be righteous in God’s sight through faith in Christ is the most valuable wisdom we can have.
To be holy in God’s sight through faith in Christ is the most valuable wisdom we can have.
And to be redeemed in God’s sight through faith in Christ is the most valuable wisdom we can have.
Truly there is no higher wisdom than Christ-centered wisdom.
Conclusion
Everyone wants success. Everyone wants to solve their problems and accomplish their goals. And everyone therefore wants the secret to success. And if God is willing to give the divine secret to success, everyone wants it. But few people want Christ as much as they want the divine secret to success. You will truly be wise if you recognize that he is the real prize. In receiving his wisdom you can know him better if that is what you prioritize.
Praying for wisdom is how you learn to lean on the Lord and prove to yourself you can trust him for everything that matters to you.
Life is hard. Your challenges and trials are many. Your goals and desires matter to you and to God. How do you get there, how do you solve problems, how do you smooth the way?
You take hold of one stunning opportunity, one breathtaking promise from the Almighty: “If any of you lacks wisdom, let him ask God, who gives generously to all without reproach, and it will be given him” (James 1:5, ESV).
How to get wisdom for anything
Consider the scope of this promise. This verse does not limit the need for wisdom to a specific area. If you need wisdom for your work or a certain relationship or managing finances or physical, emotional, or spiritual health or understanding things in the Bible or much, much more, this promise applies. You might need wisdom to solve a problem. You might need it to plan your future. Or to manage a project. Or to find peace, or to overcome a sinful habit. The relevance of wisdom for everything that matters most to you is boundless.
The first qualification for applying this promise is a sense of being emptyhanded. “If any of you lacks wisdom.” This promise is not for those who have the hack, but rather for those who lack. That certainly applies to me; how about you? Since I began wholeheartedly believing and depending on this promise, I have collected a long list of things for which I am praying for wisdom.
That list suggests one important lesson I have learned about praying for wisdom. The answer is often not an overnight shipment. Like all God’s promises, we must be prepared to persevere patiently for the answers. If we recognize that we lack wisdom and are willing to seek wisdom for as long as necessary, James 1:5 presents a universe of opportunity to even the simplest of God’s children.
One way I pray for wisdom
My most acute need for wisdom is how to lead people in Chicago into a relationship with Jesus Christ and enfold them in his church. For 26 years I have been pastor of a church in downtown. There are lots of people here, stacked up in tall buildings reaching to the sky, but leading them from where they are spiritually to a life of devotion to Jesus and involvement in his church has been quite a challenge. I know God can do it, and I believe he wants to do it, but when and how are still in the works.
What the wise can do
That is just one reason why James 1:5 stirs deep currents in my soul and keeps me praying daily for wisdom in evangelism. What James 1:5 promises about wisdom stands on the shoulders of all Proverbs says about the power of wisdom. For example:
“By wisdom a house is built, and by understanding it is established; by knowledge the rooms are filled with all precious and pleasant riches. A wise man is full of strength, and a man of knowledge enhances his might, for by wise guidance you can wage your war, and in abundance of counselors there is victory.” (Proverbs 24:3–6)
Getting things done, putting up buildings, earning money, waging war—wisdom makes it possible. Even God does his mighty works by wisdom:
“The LORD by wisdom founded the earth; by understanding he established the heavens; by his knowledge the deeps broke open, and the clouds drop down the dew.” (Proverbs 3:19–20)
And by wisdom God created and established things as sophisticated as the ecosystem of earth, the dynamics of weather, water, and light, and the plenitude of our planet’s living things.
By wisdom we learn to live in happy, fruitful ways pleasing to God. “Blessed is the one who finds wisdom, and the one who gets understanding, for the gain from her is better than gain from silver and her profit better than gold. She is more precious than jewels, and nothing you desire can compare with her. Long life is in her right hand; in her left hand are riches and honor. Her ways are ways of pleasantness, and all her paths are peace. She is a tree of life to those who lay hold of her; those who hold her fast are called blessed.” (Proverbs 3:13–18)
Finding God in the details
Based on passages like these, I am convinced God can give me and you the wisdom we need for our challenges. James 1:5 opens the door for anyone who will pray and believe for wisdom.
But there is more at stake. This is important not only for working successfully through life, but also for getting to know God better. Praying for and receiving heavenly wisdom is the way you work through the particulars of daily life in partnership with the Lord. This is as practical and relevant as Christian living gets. You know God by depending on him to give you wisdom for your job, family life, finances, health, emotions, ministry, goals, trials, prayers, and sanctification. This is how you learn to lean on the Lord and prove to yourself you can trust him in everything and for everything that matters to you.
Learning to pray for wisdom successfully is my new theme, and the Bible has much to say about it. You will not want to miss a single week.
Jeremiah 9:23–24: “Thus says the LORD: ‘Let not the wise man boast in his wisdom, let not the mighty man boast in his might, let not the rich man boast in his riches, but let him who boasts boast in this, that he understands and knows me, that I am the LORD who practices steadfast love, justice, and righteousness in the earth. For in these things I delight, declares the LORD.’” (ESV)
Greetings in Christ. I pray all is well with you and you are growing in the true knowledge of God.
Last week I concluded the series on Seven Aspects of God’s Holiness. My next series of posts will be about praying for wisdom. It is titled, How to Get Wisdom for Everything That Matters to You. This is another important way to know God, and nothing could be more practical and relevant. We know God in our daily experience by learning we can trust him to provide the wisdom we need for all life’s challenges and all our desires. We receive that wisdom through prayer. This is one way you walk with God.
My son Aaron proposed marriage to a woman in our church last week, and she said yes! Lucia and Aaron have both attended our church for years. Church and family are looking forward to their wedding later this year.
A few weeks ago our granddaughter Evelyn spent the night at our apartment in Chicago for the first time. She and Nancy and I had loads of fun. She is a sweetheart.
To celebrate our wedding anniversary, Nancy and I drove about two hours west of Chicago to Rockford, Illinois, to see the Anderson Japanese Garden. It is regularly rated as one of the finest Japanese gardens in America, and for good reason. Creating the garden on a section of his property was the vision of John Anderson, who had his home on a ridge overlooking what was a swampy several-acre bowl of land. On a trip to Portland, Anderson visited a Japanese garden that impressed him so much he hired a professional Japanese designer to create one on his property.
I get inspired by stories of people with vision who create wonderful institutions whose legacy we now enjoy. That, and my new theme, brings to mind a Scripture relevant to you in what you want to build in your life, whether a family, marriage, church, business, house, career, ministry, or even a Japanese Garden. Hebrews 3:4 says, “The builder of all things is God.” We can do nothing apart from him, and we can do much more than we thought possible with him and his infinite wisdom.
God’s name
Knowing God includes knowing his name. For one of the better explanations of the name God uses in the Old Testament—Yahweh—and how it is translated in English Bibles, I recommend this video, explaining how the new Legacy Standard Bible translates the name: how Bible translators treat the name Yahweh in the Old Testament.
A surprising open door
I was on the phone with a company’s customer service recently, and after finishing our business the agent asked, “Is there anything else I can do for you?”
I said, “Thank you, that takes care of my problem. But I do have a personal question for you if you can take a few minutes more. Have you ever taken The God Test?”
“No,” he said.
“Can you do that with me right now on the phone?” I asked. “It involves ten questions and can take about ten minutes, or more if you like.”
“Sure,” he said.
So I launched into the gospel presentation called The God Test, which my church and I are learning. I asked the agent ten questions, which he answered in ten minutes. The final question is, “Would you like to know what the Bible says about these questions?”
He said yes, so I presented the message of the gospel of Christ in about ten minutes. Then I asked, “Would you like to become a follower of Jesus right now?” He said yes. So for ten minutes I got him started on what it means to trust in Jesus and become his disciple.
Knowing God and helping others know him—what could be better than this?
Thank you for letting me be a part of your life. I pray this blog increases your knowledge of God—which is by far the most important knowledge you have.
God’s jealousy for his own glory is right and good and loving.
God is holy because he delights in and guards his reputation.
We all can relate to this. We know what it is like to care about our reputation, to want a good reputation. And we want to have a good name. We want others to think and speak well of us.
In a perfectly noble sense, this is what it means that God is jealous for the glory of his name. Here are some examples of his coming right out and saying that:
“I am the LORD; that is my name; my glory I give to no other, nor my praise to carved idols.” (Isaiah 42:8)
“For my own sake, for my own sake, I do it, for how should my name be profaned? My glory I will not give to another.” (Isaiah 48:11)
Jesus prayed, “Father, glorify your name.’ Then a voice came from heaven: ‘I have glorified it, and I will glorify it again.’” (John 12:28)
God’s concern for God’s glory
Here are other examples showing God’s pursuit or protection of his own glory:
Jesus said, “The true worshipers will worship the Father in spirit and truth, for the Father is seeking such people to worship him.” (John 4:23)
“God chose what is low and despised in the world, even things that are not, to bring to nothing things that are, so that no human being might boast in the presence of God.” (1 Corinthians 1:28–29)
“When [Judas] had gone out [to betray the Lord], Jesus said, ‘Now is the Son of Man glorified, and God is glorified in him. If God is glorified in him, God will also glorify him in himself, and glorify him at once.” (John 13:31–32)
These are just a few examples showing that God’s own glory is of ultimate importance to him. He is not shy about it or apologetic. The Bible everywhere assumes it is right for God to receive and seek glory, and that we owe him worship and thanksgiving. (See also 1 Corinthians 10:31; Ephesians 3:21; Revelation 5:11–14; Romans 1:18–22)
What is right for God, but wrong for us
God’s jealousy for the glory of his name is an aspect of his holiness that is harder for me to understand. But I know it is right; the God of the universe should not be any other way.
It is right because God only does what is right.
It is right because it is right and necessary for God to do and feel things that it is wrong for his creatures to do and feel. God’s role in the universe is utterly different than ours. God’s worth is infinitely greater than ours. Our worth is derived from him; his worth is intrinsic to himself, from himself, independent of anyone or anything.
And it is right because God is love, and love unselfishly seeks the welfare and happiness of others. God’s unselfish love is obvious when you consider the attention he gives to meticulously governing all that exists and continually providing for each of his creatures. “You open your hand; you satisfy the desire of every living thing.” (Psalm 145:16)
Yet this loving, unselfish God at the same time is jealously devoted to the glory of his own name. Those two seemingly contradictory things are not contradictory according to what God has revealed about himself in the Bible. They are perfectly harmonious. God is both an unselfish, generous lover and a self-centered seeker of glory.
Self-centered
That for me in my human thinking is part of the stumbling block: God is self-centered. When a human is self-centered, it is obnoxious, unloving, immature, and often dangerous to others. But that is because a self-centered, narcissistic human is living in delusion and falsehood, since the world does not actually revolve around him. Everything he has he received, and his life should actually revolve around his Creator, Sustainer, and God and around his family, neighbors, and society.
But for God to be self-centered is completely true and necessary. Everything that exists actually does revolve around him and depend on him. He actually deserves all glory for everything, and so for him to deflect that glory to anything else (such as “Mother Nature,” the idolized Cosmos, the laws of nature, or the American economy or military) or anyone else would be false. Because he deserves glory, because he is worthy of glory, that glory should actually come to him, just as an employee should be paid for her work.
God should not try to prevent or avoid what ought to be his. He should not say, “Aw shucks, it was nothing,” because that would be false and would negate what ought to be. What God does is great and ought to be glorified—indeed it must be glorified. When Jesus entered Jerusalem riding on a donkey and received the praises of the people, and the religious leaders objected, he said, “I tell you, if these were silent, the very stones would cry out.” (Luke 19:40)
To shift anything or anyone away from being God-centered is to kill it, for God is the source of everything. A newborn infant should be mother-centered. A human needs to be food-and-water centered. God knows we must be God-centered for our very existence and for all happiness, and therefore he is loving when he insists on it as the highest good.
Why a great God takes human actions seriously
Here is another thing that can seem to my puny, human perspective to be somewhat unworthy of God: namely, to care what people think about him, especially what his enemies think. Shouldn’t he be above that, secure in himself, impervious to criticism?
No, the Bible presents a starkly different response from God. He is in fact infinitely concerned about what people think and say of him, and how they respond to him. He delights without end in the praise of angels and humans. At the Final Judgment he plans to shut the mouths and bend the knees of every person who has spoken falsely about him. He plans to make his enemies his footstool.
God’s concern for what people think and say of him results not from any insecurity whatever in God but from how seriously he has chosen to take his creation. He takes us seriously because he chose to make us in his image, and his image is infinitely important. His words and actions are important, and he has created us so our words and actions are important.
Moreover, he made a universe of objective morality, where the moral or immoral actions of responsible moral beings like us have objective consequences. This life is not make-believe, not a fantasy, not a board game. We can’t just put away the pieces, fold up the game board, and forget about it.
For example, the disobedient and unbelieving words and actions of Adam and Eve in the Garden changed not just their lives, but the lives of all their descendants, all life and natural forces like weather on earth, and even the nature of the universe. (See Romans 8:19–23).
God became a man
The greatest evidence that God chose to invest infinite significance in the words and actions of humans is the Cross of Jesus. The reason Jesus had to suffer and die for our sins is that God chose to make humans whose words and actions matter. Right and wrong matter. And the glory of God is a matter of right and wrong above all else (Romans 3:23).
The Son of God became a man, continues to be a man, and will forever be a man—fully God and fully human—in a resurrected human body, with a full human nature. One member of the Trinity took upon himself the nature of humanity forever! Clearly God takes human beings seriously. He has invested us with infinite meaning and significance, and therefore our words and actions are significant, and therefore our praise or our profaning words infinitely matter to him.
This therefore is another important aspect of God’s holiness. To say God is holy is to say he delights in and jealously protects the glory of his name, in heaven, in all the created universe, on earth, and in particular among the humans he created in his image and with whom he has united himself forever.
Jeremiah 9:23–24: “Thus says the LORD: ‘Let not the wise man boast in his wisdom, let not the mighty man boast in his might, let not the rich man boast in his riches, but let him who boasts boast in this, that he understands and knows me, that I am the LORD who practices steadfast love, justice, and righteousness in the earth. For in these things I delight, declares the LORD.’” (ESV)