Practicing God’s Presence Through One Foundational Habit

Habitual, brief pauses for prayer are the secret to practicing God’s presence.

Twelve habitual prayers

Practicing God’s presence involves developing a prayer habit based on about twelve prayers. We can develop them one at a time until they all become as normal as breathing.

They are not meant to be a list to walk through in sequence. Rather they are prayers that become a habit and find their natural place scattered throughout our day as led by the Lord and called forth by different situations.

For example, before I began writing this post I instinctively paused to tell God I cannot do this and need his help. This was not mechanical. It flowed naturally from my sense of need.

I have been admitting my dependence to God and asking for help for many years based on my beliefs.

I am convinced I cannot even think unless God gives me a rational mind from moment to moment (see Daniel 4), and I cannot know spiritual things apart from the Spirit of God, and I cannot formulate ideas in a helpful way without his wisdom.

That prayer is one way I practice God’s presence.

In upcoming posts we will explore twelve prayers. I suggest you focus on one or two a day to develop the habit and let others flow naturally as fits the occasion.

Don’t be mechanical. But regularly ask yourself, “How can I practice God’s presence right now?”

Having God and his Word in your mind, and on your lips if possible, makes him present to you, no matter what your emotions, what the condition of your spirit, or to what degree you sense the presence of the Holy Spirit.

The foundational habit

One habit makes the other practices possible.

It is the regular pause to pray, as often as possible throughout the day, for as little as one second to as long as you desire, but usually for five to ten seconds.

You can pray in your heart or aloud, with eyes open or closed, when you are alone or in a crowd.

You turn your mind to God and express one or more of these twelve prayers. And then you resume what you are doing.

Set a goal to increase your current practice. If you turn your thoughts to God once or twice in a typical day, increase to four to six times.

Perhaps set an alarm on your phone to remind you, or tie it to regular activities like meals, tea breaks, and getting in and out of bed.

When that habit is established, increase your pauses to every hour. Then twice each hour, then every ten minutes. Eventually you will settle into a frequency that is natural and comfortable.

As a complement to the time trigger for pausing to pray, also tie prayers to situations.

For example, when tempted, we can ask Jesus to help us overcome it (see Hebrews 2:16–18). Or when worries arise, we can declare trust in God.

Next week we will begin exploring the twelve prayers that provide variety and relevance in practicing God’s presence throughout the day.

Other readers and I would love to hear from you. Do you tend to pray in one devotional time a day or in brief pauses for prayer throughout the day, or both?

What Gives Me Worth?

Self-worth and self-esteem

We need to feel we have value

Where do you find your sense of worth? If you were a boastful person, what would you boast about?

The LORD says, “Let not the wise man boast in his wisdom, let not the mighty man boast in his might, let not the rich man boast in his riches, but let him who boasts boast in this, that he understands and knows me” (Jeremiah 9:23–24).

If a person boasts, it is because one of the strongest motivations in life is to find significance, importance, worth. We need to feel we have value. It is crushing to think that we are worthless or inferior to others. Whether we boast or not, we all pursue significance.

How we pursue self-worth

We need to be aware of how we try to get worth and how that affects our motivations.

Unfortunately, we may choose insignificant ways to get significance. We seek worth through success, or money, beauty, a chiseled body, knowledge, skill, achievements, power, position, love, fame.

None of these are wrong in themselves, but they do not add to our worth.

And they can be hard to get.

If we fall short of these, our ego will find something to take pride in, even trivial things. Things like whether our pants or shoes are in style. The success of our sports team. The brands we use and how much we paid. The speed and capacity of our technology. Our race, haircut, or knowledge of trivia. The ability to cook a particular dish. A collection of bottles.

We are so voracious for significance that we can take pride in literally anything.

How God gives self-worth

Jeremiah 9:23–24, quoted above, says that there is only one legitimate, effective way to find significance: by knowing God.

That is because God alone is intrinsically worthy, significant, and glorious, and he alone gives worth to his creation. When he gives worth, that worth is enormous.

When he speaks a word of approval or honor, then sooner or later every living human and angel will recognize that worth and likewise give honor. If God does not approve, if he dishonors someone or something, then it will pass away and be forgotten.

So boasting is okay under just one condition: if we are humbly boasting in our relationship with God, fully aware that God is the one who gets all the credit.

But in a sense, we proudly boast in the glory of God. We don’t feel second-rate because we find our worth in him or that he is second best to all the cool things to boast about in this world.

If you know God, if you know how to walk with him as he requires, if you know the wisdom he reveals in his Word, if you know Jesus Christ as Savior, if you know his character and nature, if you love him and delight in your personal relationship with him through prayer throughout each day, you don’t need to prop up your ego with the passing trophies of this world. You have the greatest significance possible.

Signs that you pursue your self-worth in God

What indicates that you find your significance in knowing God? Three things come quickly to mind:

  • How much you read the Bible
  • Whether you connect with God in prayer throughout each day
  • Struggling with feelings of inferiority or envy if you compare yourself to others

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