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The Connection between the Father’s Love and the Children’s Daily Bread

Why does God provide for your every need?

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Imagine a family of four: a man and his wife and son, age 5, and daughter, age 7. The man has a well-paying job, and his wife stays home to give full-time childcare. The man is an affectionate father who hugs his children and tells them how much he loves them every morning when he leaves the house and every evening when he returns. All is well for this family until the man decides he wants more money to spend on travel, golf, and expensive dining at a private club.

He decides that the way to get the money he wants is to gamble. He begins going regularly to casinos, gambling more and more, winning now and then, but losing far more than he gains. Soon he spends his savings and begins going into debt to try to make up his losses with a big win.

He still has a family. Every morning when he leaves the house and every evening when he returns, he hugs and kisses his children and tells them how much he loves them. But one day he tells his wife that they can no longer afford to buy clothes and toys for the children. A few weeks later he tells her to get a part-time job to pay for groceries because he can no longer afford to provide food for the family. He tells her that the kids are old enough to take care of themselves for a few hours a day while she is at work.

Every morning when he leaves the house and every evening when he returns, he hugs and kisses the kids and tells them how much he loves them.

No, we would say, he doesn’t love his children. No father who truly loved his children would fail to provide for them like this. Loving fathers provide the fundamental needs of their dependents.

Jesus, on daily bread

Jesus based his teaching about money and the meeting of our daily needs on this principle. God is our Father, we are his dependents. Loving fathers, good fathers, provide for the fundamental needs of their children. For this reason, Jesus taught that we don’t have to worry about the provision of our daily necessities.

In his main teaching on this subject, notice in verses 26 and 32 below that Jesus bases his assurances about the full provision of our needs on the caring Fatherhood of God:

“24 No one can serve two masters, for either he will hate the one and love the other, or he will be devoted to the one and despise the other. You cannot serve God and money. 25 Therefore I tell you, do not be anxious about your life, what you will eat or what you will drink, nor about your body, what you will put on. Is not life more than food, and the body more than clothing? 26 Look at the birds of the air: they neither sow nor reap nor gather into barns, and yet your heavenly Father feeds them. Are you not of more value than they? 27 And which of you by being anxious can add a single hour to his span of life? 28 And why are you anxious about clothing? Consider the lilies of the field, how they grow: they neither toil nor spin, 29 yet I tell you, even Solomon in all his glory was not arrayed like one of these. 30 But if God so clothes the grass of the field, which today is alive and tomorrow is thrown into the oven, will he not much more clothe you, O you of little faith? 31 Therefore do not be anxious, saying, ‘What shall we eat?’ or ‘What shall we drink?’ or ‘What shall we wear?’ 32 For the Gentiles seek after all these things, and your heavenly Father knows that you need them all. 33 But seek first the kingdom of God and his righteousness, and all these things will be added to you. 34 Therefore do not be anxious about tomorrow, for tomorrow will be anxious for itself. Sufficient for the day is its own trouble.” (Matthew 6:24–34, ESV)

Ultimate responsibility for daily bread

Neglect and love are incompatible.

Your Father in heaven loves you, and you can be sure he is a good Father who takes his responsibility seriously. He has no limitations. He is fully able to provide for you. Therefore he does not expect you to live as if the ultimate responsibility for meeting your needs rested on your shoulders, as if there were no God ruling the world. No, Jesus taught that your heavenly Father is fully aware of your needs and that you are valuable to him as his child. He takes ultimate responsibility for meeting your needs.

Of course, as a good Father he is raising mature children who learn to work hard and be responsible—but we are never to think we have ultimate responsibility for provision. We are not God. Only he rules the affairs of this world. So our responsibility is to work and to manage our money well.

But, Jesus taught, in verse 33, we are not to fear like those who don’t know God, not to live for money like those who don’t know God, not to live unrighteously like those who don’t know God, and not to make the kingdom of God anything lower than first priority like those who don’t know God. If we will “seek first the kingdom of God and his righteousness…all these things will be added to you” (Matthew 6:33). Why? Because God is your father, he is good, and he loves you. Those who walk in his ways enjoy his full provision.

Our way and God’s way

Our way: Fallen people live as though God is not their provider, as though money, job, career, job skills, a corporation, the economy, or a boss were their ultimate provider. These are the secondary sources of our provision, but the ultimate source is God the Father.

God’s way: As a loving, caring Father, the Lord gives infinite attention to faithfully providing everything we truly need. God uses secondary sources to provide, but secondary sources only work because he makes them work. (See James 1:17; Psalm 104:10-32; Romans 11:36)

Life principle: The key to enjoying your Father’s faithful provision for every real need is to live by the rules of his house: to seek first his kingdom, that is, his rule in every aspect of your life, and to seek first his righteousness, that is, his commands for how to live in the way that pleases him. Surrender control of your life to God, and obey his commandments, and you will never lack for your true essentials.

“Thus says the Lord…Let him who boasts boast in this, that he understands and knows me” Jeremiah 9:23-24
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The Intimacy of Absolute Trust

Our heavenly Father wants to hold us to his bosom.

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Over the next seven weeks I plan to continue exploring the theme of God’s love by focusing more closely on how God’s love is revealed in his fatherhood. Here are subjects we will explore in the loving fatherhood of God:

  • The Intimacy of Absolute Trust: He wants to hold us to his bosom.
  • Daily Bread: He wants to provide for us.
  • Answering Requests: He wants to give what we ask.
  • Compassionate Help: He wants to sympathize and help us.
  • Wise and Loving Discipline: He wants to train us to be mature and righteous.
  • Security: He wants to protect us.
  • Inheritance: He wants to give us all he owns.
  • Identity: He wants us to be like him.

Today let’s take the first on the list.

The Intimacy of Absolute Trust

Because God loves us, he wants our relationship with him to have the intimacy that comes from absolute trust. Intimate trust is what good fathers have with good children.

God calls on us to trust him absolutely, without reservation, as a young child trusts a good father. Jesus said, “Truly, I say to you, unless you turn and become like children, you will never enter the kingdom of heaven” (Matthew 18:3, ESV).

The example of God the Father and God the Son

Jesus displays what the intimacy of absolute trust looks like. Scripture says, “No one has seen God at any time; the only begotten God who is in the bosom of the Father, He has explained [Him.]” (John 1:18, NASB).

To be “in the bosom” of another person means to have your head on their chest, or to be in their embrace. The bosom is the front of the body between the arms. I have seen my son Brian carry his infant son Erlend in a harness that holds Erlend facing him chest to chest. Erlend falls peacefully asleep there in the bosom of his father, the top of his head just below Brian’s chin.

The bosom of the father is not just for infants. In one parable, Jesus told how one wealthy man now in Hades “saw Abraham far away and Lazarus in his bosom” (Luke 16:22–23, NASB). Lazarus was the poor man who during his life had lived in abject poverty, who had lain at the gate of the wealthy man with dogs licking his sores. But now Lazarus was in paradise, comforted by father Abraham himself, in the bosom, in the embrace, of the great patriarch.

In another example, we find that reclining in front of someone at the meal table could be described as being in the person’s bosom. In the culture of Jesus’ time, people ate special meals lying on their sides on mats, leaning on their elbow, with their heads at the table and bodies perpendicular to the table. The mats could be close enough that a person could lean back and lay their head on their neighbor’s chest. So it happened at the Last Supper. After Jesus revealed that someone would betray him, Scripture says, “There was reclining on Jesus’ bosom one of His disciples, whom Jesus loved. So Simon Peter gestured to him, and said to him, ‘Tell [us] who it is of whom He is speaking.’ He, leaning back thus on Jesus’ bosom, said to Him, ‘Lord, who is it?’” (John 13:23–25, NASB).

Here, the beloved disciple John was in the place to hear from Jesus directly in his ear a secret revealed. He was in the bosom of Jesus, able to receive confidential information.

In the Father’s embrace

John 1:18 describes Jesus as being in the bosom of his Father in heaven. This is God’s ideal. He wants each of his children to be in his bosom. In the Parable of the Prodigal Son, when the prodigal finally came to his senses and was walking home from debauchery in a distant land, “his father saw him and felt compassion, and ran and embraced him and kissed him” (Luke 15:20). This is how our loving Father in heaven feels about his repentant children. He wants us against his bosom, wrapped in his arms, relying on him as our refuge. There the son or daughter can know they are perfectly safe, for in the bosom of the Father is the only place of true safety. There our souls can rest in absolute, unqualified trust, as peaceful and carefree as an infant asleep on daddy’s chest.

God wants you to trust him without reservation

Our absolute trust and the intimacy that comes with it is so important to God that he has determined to save only those who have faith in him and his words. (Eph. 2:8–9)

He calls us again and again to trust him.

  • “Trust in the LORD with all your heart, and do not lean on your own understanding” (Proverbs 3:5, ESV).
  • “Thus says the LORD: ‘Cursed is the man who trusts in man and makes flesh his strength, whose heart turns away from the LORD. He is like a shrub in the desert, and shall not see any good come. He shall dwell in the parched places of the wilderness, in an uninhabited salt land. Blessed is the man who trusts in the LORD, whose trust is the LORD. He is like a tree planted by water, that sends out its roots by the stream, and does not fear when heat comes, for its leaves remain green, and is not anxious in the year of drought, for it does not cease to bear fruit’” (Jeremiah 17:5–8, ESV).
  • “Those who know your name put their trust in you, for you, O LORD, have not forsaken those who seek you” (Psalm 9:10, ESV).
  • “Trust in him at all times, O people; pour out your heart before him; God is a refuge for us” (Psalm 62:8, ESV).
  • “O Israel, trust in the LORD! He is their help and their shield. O house of Aaron, trust in the LORD! He is their help and their shield. You who fear the LORD, trust in the LORD! He is their help and their shield” (Psalm 115:9–11, ESV).
  • “O LORD of hosts, blessed is the one who trusts in you!” (Psalm 84:12, ESV)
  • “Those who trust in the LORD are like Mount Zion, which cannot be moved, but abides forever” (Psalm 125:1, ESV).
  • “Behold, God is my salvation; I will trust, and will not be afraid; for the LORD GOD is my strength and my song, and he has become my salvation” (Isaiah 12:2, ESV).
  • “You keep him in perfect peace whose mind is stayed on you, because he trusts in you. Trust in the LORD forever, for the LORD GOD is an everlasting rock” (Isaiah 26:3–4, ESV).
  • “Who among you fears the LORD and obeys the voice of his servant? Let him who walks in darkness and has no light trust in the name of the LORD and rely on his God” (Isaiah 50:10, ESV).

Our way and God’s way

Our way: Fallen people lean on their own understanding, or the world’s understanding, or Satan’s false insinuations about God’s character.

God’s way: God is absolutely, perfectly, always, and evermore faithful, truthful, benevolent, and therefore trustworthy.

Life principle: The only safe way to live is to trust in God and his Word without reservation.

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Prior Love

We need to believe in God’s love for us, just as we need to believe in his existence. We need to believe he first loved us.

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Suppose there was a young woman, Alicia, looking for romance, who caught the attention of a young man, James, also looking for love. James was handsome, wealthy, kind, and successful. Alicia was invisible to most men, but something about her appealed to him. So, he asked her to go to dinner with him and took her to a pricey restaurant.

They had a pleasant time, but inexplicably by the end of the evening Alicia decided she had no interest in James. He, on the other hand, was infatuated with her.

He was a man who was nothing if not persistent and confident, so he decided to woo her until love blossomed in her tepid heart. He sent her bouquets of flowers and boxes of candy. He asked her to go to movies and dinners, and occasionally she would accept just because she had nothing better to do. He sent her notes praising her beauty and personality, to which she never responded. He wrote her poetry and songs. For a full year he pursued her.

Then, one day the light turned on in Alicia’s heart. She realized what a wonderful man James was, what patience and humility he had shown to her, and how sincere was his affection. Suddenly the intensity of his romantic interest in her was met by her intense interest in him. And the relationship blossomed.

But soon something painful also surfaced in Alicia’s heart. She now loved James so much that she began to fear losing him. She had been cool and indifferent for so long that now she worried James would remember her rejection and hold it against her. If a night passed without a call from James, or if he was anything less than enthusiastic and affectionate when they were together, she would be overcome with fear that his love had waned.

As a result, she began doing everything she could think of to earn and deserve his love. She cooked extraordinary meals for him. She was encouraging, cheerful, and careful never to be in a bad mood around him. But the harder she tried to please, the more she feared losing him.

Who loved first?

This little story illustrates what can happen in our relationship with God. We can doubt his love for us even though he has demonstrated his love in countless ways, and even though his love for us preceded our love for him. We can be tortured by insecurity.

But 1 John 4:19 says, “We love because he first loved us.” God’s love was prior. He loved us first, long before we had any interest in him, long before the world was even created. Ephesians 1:4–5 says, “He chose us in him before the foundation of the world, that we should be holy and blameless before him. In love he predestined us for adoption to himself as sons through Jesus Christ, according to the purpose of his will.”

If you could not earn God’s prior love when you were rejecting him, then you cannot earn his prior love after you have accepted him. He loved you first; you rejected him. He kept loving you first; eventually you accepted him. He won’t stop loving you.

Faith in God’s love

1 John 4:16–19 says: “16 So we have come to know and to believe the love that God has for us. God is love, and whoever abides in love abides in God, and God abides in him. 17 By this is love perfected with us, so that we may have confidence for the day of judgment, because as he is so also are we in this world. 18 There is no fear in love, but perfect love casts out fear. For fear has to do with punishment, and whoever fears has not been perfected in love. 19 We love because he first loved us.”

God’s prior love is the basis for our love for him. The only reason you love God now and want him now is that he loved you first and continues to love you. You need to believe this. “We have come to know and to believe the love that God has for us” (v. 16). This is an act of faith just as believing that Jesus is the Son of God is an act of faith, just as believing in the resurrection of Jesus is an act of faith. Believing that God loves you is an act of faith. You must choose to reject unbelief about God’s love.

Our way and God’s way

Our way: We may feel we need to earn God’s love. We may feel insecure in his love.

God’s way: He loves us first, before we do anything to deserve his love.

Life principle: We need to believe in God’s love for us, just as we need to believe in his existence. We must not give way to fear and unbelief about God’s prior love.

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My May Letter to You

Hi, here are some happenings and memories of the last few months.

I took this fun photo at Morton Arboretum recently, where an artist has created several giant statues like this.

Nancy and I took a day for an outing to one of our favorite restaurants, the Grande Luxe Cafe, and the Planetarium.
Can you imagine being sealed into this tiny Apollo spacecraft for days and never leaving your seat?

News:

  • At our church we recently had a wonderful experience with prayer for seven weeks. Several people had critical needs related to work and visas, and so the Lord led us to fast and pray on seven Sundays for the moving of mountains in our lives. We invited people to fast from lunch, or breakfast and lunch, and then after our Sunday morning worship service we went to one of our homes and prayed for a couple of hours together. Then we ate together. God answered a number of our prayers, and our relationship with him was deepened. It was a powerful and life-changing experience.
  • I have several months more writing to do on the theme of God’s love. Thinking long about God’s love has changed my life, and I hope yours as well.
  • I’m still writing my book on holiness. This is a labor of love. I revel in the subject of God’s holiness, and I love sharing with others about it, partly because it is so little understood or cherished in our world today. God’s holiness has become lost knowledge.
  • The ministry of this blog has grown to 91 readers who have signed up to receive my weekly email, which is free. If you have not signed up, I invite you to join and belong if you enjoy reading my writing, if you think others could benefit from it, if you want to foster the knowledge of God in as many others as possible, if you want to support this writing ministry and message. One benefit of your signing up, for example, is that it may please God to publish the content of this blog not only online but in the traditional world of book publishing, and book publishers are much more willing to publish a writer who has a “built-in” readership (measured by the number of email subscribers).  You can sign up in the upper-right column of my site, craigbrianlarson.com. Thanks, and welcome to the Knowing God village!

My favorite three posts since my last letter:

My most important, challenging post since my last letter:

Books I’ve been reading:

  • Intercessory Prayer, by Dutch Sheets
  • Future Grace, by John Piper
  • Hearing God, by Dallas Willard
  • The Secret of Guidance, by F. B. Meyer
  • Love Beyond Reason, by John Ortberg

Favorite new website and mobile app: I have known about the free BlueLetterBible.org site for years, but recently I started using it as my main Bible-study resource. Surprisingly, I now prefer it in most ways over my PC’s $350 Bible-study application.

The most interesting mobile app I’ve recently come across is “Read Scripture.” I haven’t used it a lot yet, but what I’ve read has impressed me.

Questions: How can I make this site more valuable to you? How can we have more community and interaction among readers? What are your questions about God and his ways? Please send me an email with your feedback:

Prayer request: I am seeking a publisher for a manuscript I’ve written on the subject of divine testing.

Knowing God: What do you most want to know more about? What are you most curious about? Over time, that is what you will gain understanding in. Curiosity leads to knowledge, for it leads to motivated reading, to conversation and connection over our shared interest, to love of what we study, to the ability to see what others overlook, to further meditation.

God wants us to be curious about him. He wants us to think about him, to meditate on him, to talk with others about him, to ask questions and sing songs and report what we have learned about him. He wants us to have a sense of wonder about him similar to the wonder that scientists and explorers have in their field of study. Not so that we can control or master God, but so that we can know and praise him and relate to him as closely and deeply as possible.

God is deeper and more profound than the greatest questions and theories in mathematics or physics, for he created mathematics and the material world and understands every aspect of it completely.

God is more beautiful and pleasing than a collection of the world’s most beautiful music. He created music. He created Mozart, or whoever writes the music you regard as most wonderful. God could write and play a million songs more beautiful and delightful than any you have ever heard, and the next day write a million more, and the next day a million more. Just for starters. But all these beautiful songs are simply an expression of his own beauty, the music of his own heart and mind, of who he is.

God is more loving than the kindest, most sacrificial person you know. He doesn’t just do love; he is love. Love is his nature, his being, his constitution, for love gives. God upholds all things and gives existence to all things as a continuous expression of his will. He is love, for all things are from him, through him, and to him. He gives and gives and gives as who and what he is.

Therefore, for good reason the Lord says, “Let not the wise man boast in his wisdom, let not the mighty man boast in his might, let not the rich man boast in his riches, but let him who boasts boast in this, that he understands and knows me, that I am the LORD who practices steadfast love, justice, and righteousness in the earth. For in these things I delight, declares the LORD” (Jeremiah 9:23–24 ESV).

For good reason he commands, “You shall love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your mind and with all your strength” (Mark 12:30). He knows this brings the good life, the very best life, the ultimate and most satisfying life.

There you have it, my reason for being, my reason for writing, and the purpose of this blog. May you grow in the knowledge of God today. And thereby, may you have the good life.

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Sacrificial Love

What is the greatest sign of God’s love?

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Imagine you are invited to a birthday party for your niece. As the day nears, you begin thinking about what to buy for a present. You love your brother and his daughter dearly, and you want to get as nice a gift as possible. So you think about your budget. You have allocated, let’s say, $1,000 for the year for gifts, including birthdays, Christmas, weddings, anniversaries, and surprises. Accounting for what you have already spent on gifts for the year and the spending you know is still to come, you figure that you should spend $100 on your niece’s gift.

That’s an expensive gift, but on this occasion it just doesn’t feel generous enough. You want to give more, but to do so you will need to cut spending elsewhere. So you look over your budget and see that you have allocated $100 for eating out and entertainment. Hmmm. Taking $50 from that category is relatively painless. So you buy your beloved niece a generous gift costing $150.

Suppose, however, that you didn’t have an easy category in your budget to reduce. Suppose that the only way to get more money for the gift was to reduce your grocery budget for the month, and your grocery budget was already tight. Taking $50 from groceries will require your having no desserts and little meat, as well as buying generic brands instead of the name brands you enjoy. And suppose your heart overflows with love for your brother and niece, and you decide not only to do that but to go further and spend $300 on your niece’s gift, and as a consequence you are willing to eat as little as possible for one month. That is not merely a gift, not merely a generous gift, but a sacrificial gift.

The sacrificial love of Jesus

In his great love, God is a giver, a generous giver, but he is far more than a generous giver. He is a sacrificial giver. In his great love, he gives to the point of great loss and staggering cost.

2 Corinthians 8:9 says, “For you know the grace of our Lord Jesus Christ, that though he was rich, yet for your sake he became poor, so that you by his poverty might become rich.”

Before being conceived in the womb of Mary, the Son of God was rich in heaven. He was worshiped by angels and saints, enjoying the love and presence of his glorious Father, in the perfect comfort of one who is a spiritual being living in the spiritual paradise of heaven, executing his Father’s will in heaven and earth. His glory was infinite and perfect.

Yet, at his Father’s loving command, the Son of God chose to become poor. He left that beautiful place to become a man, to take on weak human flesh, and through that body to become susceptible to fatigue, pain, agony, limitation, and worst of all the abuse of evil men. When he gave himself up to the Roman soldiers, to beatings, to scourging, to the cross, to bearing our sins, to the wrath of God, he made the greatest of all sacrifices. He loved us not just generously, but sacrificially.

The sacrificial love of the Father

The sacrificial love of the Son of God is matched only by the sacrificial love of the Father. John 3:16 says, “God so loved the world that he gave his only Son.” If God gave us something material like more possessions, that doesn’t really cost him anything, for he can create more of whatever he gives. But giving his Son to suffer and die for people who reject God, that is costly.

One thing I can hardly bare to see is the parents of a soldier receiving his or her remains in a casket as a casualty of war. That is a parent’s greatest sacrifice for their country. And that was the Father’s sacrifice for you.

God the Father’s love is not merely a giving love, or a generous love, but a sacrificial love.

Our way and God’s way

Our way: We prefer to give out of abundance, to give comfortably, not out of poverty.

God’s way: God loves in a way that is willing to suffer significant loss for the sake of another’s gain.

Life principle: God’s sacrifice for us rightly motivates our sacrifice for him.

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Comforting Love

How does God comfort us?

Lasting comfort

Because God loves you, he comforts you.

Over the last seven Sundays our church had a fasting-and-prayer meeting that followed the morning worship service. We fasted breakfast and lunch, or just lunch, prayed for about two hours, then broke the fast by eating a wonderful meal together. Each Sunday as I ate that food after fasting, I was struck by how wonderful it tasted and what a blessing it is to eat good food. I found myself numerous times saying, “This tastes so good,” and others were saying the same thing.

There was a reason for this. The food at our prayer meetings is always great, but it is especially satisfying after fasting. Fasting brings on the distress of hunger. The hungrier we are, the better food tastes and the more comforting it is not only to the body but to the soul. You probably have heard the phrase “comfort food.” Comfort food is the tasty, filling food you long to eat when your soul is hurting. Comfort is a very good thing.

The Comfort God

The Bible says the Lord is the “God of all comfort, who comforts us in all our afflictions” (2 Corinthians 1:3–4). God’s comfort is a very good thing, a very loving thing. God’s comfort is a good because life in this world is marked by affliction, pain, hardship, and grief. Bad things happen to us and the people we love. Loved ones move away. Family members die. Jobs come and go, as do the difficulties and challenges of our work, and sometimes the excessive hours. The human body suffers disease and weakness. Financial setbacks befall us. Satan and evil wage war with the saints. Life is hard, the world is often punishing, and our soul feels it.

Therefore we need comfort. At the end of a long, toiling day, our body needs to crawl into bed, pull up the covers, and sleep. At the end of a long week, we need a day of Sabbath. When the skin on your hands is dry and chapped, you long to rub in cream. When you shiver in the cold, you long for a blanket or a thick, downy jacket. When you walk a long distance on hot day, you thirst for a tall glass of water. When you endure a long season of troubles, you crave hearing good news. Comfort is good, and we need it, even if it’s just a slowly sipped cup of coffee.

The God of all comfort

Because God loves you, he delights to comfort you. He is the “God of all comfort, who comforts us in all our afflictions” (2 Cor. 1:3–4). God is like Barzillai and his two friends, who came to King David’s aid in his time of need. David’s son Absalom had betrayed him, gathering a following, turning the hearts of Israel against David, and finally gathering an army to kill David and his loyalists. David and his people hurriedly fled Jerusalem and headed into the wilderness with next to nothing. As quickly as they could, they walked for miles through the arid terrain fearing Absalom’s immediate assault.

Faint and downhearted, they needed to camp, and as they did they encountered the God of all comfort, in the faces of three men. “When David came to Mahanaim, Shobi the son of Nahash from Rabbah of the Ammonites, and Machir the son of Ammiel from Lo-debar, and Barzillai the Gileadite from Rogelim, brought beds, basins, and earthen vessels, wheat, barley, flour, parched grain, beans and lentils, honey and curds and sheep and cheese from the herd, for David and the people with him to eat, for they said, ‘The people are hungry and weary and thirsty in the wilderness.’” (2 Samuel 17:27–29)

Shobi, Machir, and Barzillai were wealthy men whose households God had enriched and whose hearts God had moved to help David and his people in their hour of affliction. They were there when David needed them because God in his love had put them there. They were the hands and feet and food and water of the God of all comfort, who comforts us in all our affliction.

How to find ultimate comfort

“Comfort, comfort my people, says your God” (Isaiah 40:1 ESV)

“I, I am he who comforts you” (Isaiah 51:12 ESV).

After a season of persecution against the church, “the church throughout all Judea and Galilee and Samaria had peace and was being built up. And walking in the fear of the Lord and in the comfort of the Holy Spirit, it multiplied.” (Acts 9:31 ESV)

God comforts us because he loves us as a mother loves her child. “As one whom his mother comforts, so I will comfort you” (Isaiah 66:13 ESV).

How does God comfort us? For starters, he provides the worldly comforts we need.  “Every good gift and every perfect gift is from above, coming down from the Father of lights” (James 1:17, ESV). But our Father goes beyond that to provide the greatest, enduring comfort that any soul can experience: He gives his presence. He imparts the knowledge of God. He speaks his promises. Apart from these, there is no true and lasting comfort, and with his presence, his promises, and his revelation of who he is, our soul finds true peace. Dispelling fear, sadness, and despair, God’s Word and Spirit are the best comfort food.

Our way and God’s way

Our way: Fallen people try to find comfort primarily in created things rather than in the Creator.

God’s way: We find comfort primarily in knowing God and his love, and secondarily in the comforts he mercifully provides.

Life principle: Only when we find soul comfort in God can we be fully comforted by the consolations he provides from this world.

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Rebuking Love

One of the greatest gifts God gives a person is his loving rebuke.

God rebukes

This week I saw on national news the story of a young woman who was murdered because she got in the wrong car. She had requested a ride-share from Uber. A car pulled up and stopped where she was waiting, and she assumed it was her ride, without confirming the license plate or the driver’s name. She got in the car and disappeared. All this was recorded on a nearby security video. Days later the police found her body.

Imagine if a friend had been waiting with her at the curb when that wrong car had pulled up. Imagine if that friend realized before the car door opened that this was not the right car or driver, but she said nothing because she didn’t want to tell her friend she was wrong or offend her by telling her what to do. Take it a step farther and imagine that she actually knew that the driver was a murderer whose mug shot she had seen on the news.

Such a scenario is ridiculous to imagine because what friend would be that uncaring? Sincere love always seeks the good of another, and that means not only telling them the truths they may not want to hear but even rebuking them sharply when necessary.

Rebuking love

This is the kind of love God continually gives people. It is one of his most gracious gifts to sinners. Psalm 25:8 says, “Good and upright is the LORD; therefore he instructs sinners in the way.” It is so important and necessary that he mercifully speaks warnings in abundance. He tells you the truth, including the hard truths you may not want to hear. He warns you. “Don’t get in that car! It’s the wrong car!” In love, he rebukes you.

Jesus said, “Those whom I love I rebuke and discipline” (Revelation 3:19). Jesus rebukes people. Webster’s defines rebuke as, “To criticize or reprove sharply; reprimand.” Whom does Jesus rebuke? According to this Scripture, he rebukes those he loves.

He rebukes you with 100 percent accuracy. He knows all things—all potential harm, all who would do you evil, all your weaknesses and sins. He knows the future. He knows what is right and wrong, wise or foolish. He knows Satan and his deceptions. He knows the world and its seductive pleasures.

When the Lord must offend

In the Gospels you see Jesus continually saying things that will offend somebody, if not everybody. Jesus was not trying to win a popularity contest by his words; he was trying to save people. When Peter tried to keep him from going to Jerusalem and the cross, Jesus “rebuked Peter and said, ‘Get behind me, Satan! For you are not setting your mind on the things of God, but on the things of man’” (Mark 8:33).

When his disciples worried about where their next meal would come from, Jesus said, “O you of little faith, why are you discussing among yourselves the fact that you have no bread?” (Matthew 16:8).

When a crowd sought him following in boats when he withdrew from them, Jesus told them, “Truly, truly, I say to you, you are seeking me, not because you saw signs, but because you ate your fill of the loaves. Do not work for the food that perishes, but for the food that endures to eternal life” (John 6:26–27).

In love, Jesus said the uncomfortable things people needed to hear.

When God must harshly offend

In fact, the context of Revelation 3:19—“Those whom I love I rebuke and discipline”—is Jesus’s delivering one of the harshest rebukes found in the New Testament: his warning to the church in Laodicea:

“15 I know your deeds, that you are neither cold nor hot. I wish you were either cold or hot! 16 So because you are lukewarm, and neither hot nor cold, I am going to vomit you out of my mouth! 17 Because you say, ‘I am rich and have acquired great wealth, and need nothing,’ but do not realize that you are wretched, pitiful, poor, blind, and naked, 18 take my advice and buy gold from me refined by fire so you can become rich! Buy from me white clothing so you can be clothed and your shameful nakedness will not be exposed, and buy eye salve to put on your eyes so you can see! 19 All those I love, I rebuke and discipline. So be earnest and repent!” (NET)

Imagine Jesus appearing to you in a vision and instead of speaking comforting words like “I will never leave you or forsake you” he said, “I feel like vomiting you out of my mouth”! Would you feel loved? Would you feel cherished? But soul-saving love is precisely what Jesus was giving the Laodiceans. That is what he said: “Those whom I love I rebuke.”

Fellowship can follow rebuke

Indeed, Jesus followed up his loving words of rebuke to the Laodiceans with loving words of invitation and promise to the very same church:

“20 Listen! I am standing at the door and knocking! If anyone hears my voice and opens the door I will come into his home and share a meal with him, and he with me. 21 I will grant the one who conquers permission to sit with me on my throne, just as I too conquered and sat down with my Father on his throne. 22 The one who has an ear had better hear what the Spirit says to the churches.” (Revelation 3:15–22, NET)

Jesus said I want to fellowship with you. I want to make you a conqueror.

Our way and God’s way

Our way: We misunderstand correction as rejection. We don’t want to hear about our faults or be told we must change. We may suppose that because grace covers all our sins then God must love us unconditionally and not rebuke us. We may suppose that because God is gracious, our “performance” doesn’t matter. We may suppose that talking about sin is just negative and unhelpful.

God’s way: For our good, Jesus tells us everything we need to hear, including the truth about our faults, including everything we need to know about God and his will. But the severity of his correction is determined by the degree of the sinner’s pride, stubbornness, unbelief, or honesty and willingness to repent. Do you have a hard heart or a broken heart?

Life principle: We must not misinterpret correction as rejection or hatred. If all you want to hear from God or his spokesmen are positive words of comfort and blessing, you are making a serious mistake. If you close your ears to the hard truths, you may soon be getting in the wrong car.

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—Craig Brian Larson

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Liberating Love

True freedom is all about love.

You and I long to be free. The yearning for freedom is what brings people to America. It’s why we love weekends. It’s why people want to be wealthy or retired. The love of freedom is why we want to be healthy and strong. It’s why we dislike domineering people, leaders, and organizations, or restrictive clothing, weather, or schedules. Freedom is paradise.

The longing to be free is why our fallen nature resists God. Our fallen nature sees him as the ultimate restriction.

Wrong

But that is not true.

Jesus said, “If the Son sets you free, you will be free indeed.” (John 8:36)

He also said, “If you abide in my word, you are truly my disciples, and you will know the truth, and the truth will set you free.” (John 8:31–32)

In fact, the Bible overflows with the theme of freedom. It is the freedom Book, the freedom story—of God in love liberating people from slavery in Egypt, from bondage in Babylon, from the debilitating oppression of disease, from the burden of the Law of Moses, from captivity to Satan and sin and deceptions.

“The LORD sets the prisoners free” (Psalm 146:7).

Where God is most present, people are actually most free: “Where the Spirit of the Lord is, there is freedom” (2 Corinthians 3:17).

Freedom is our destiny; it is for what God in love designed us:

“You were called to freedom, brothers” (Galatians 5:13).

“For freedom Christ has set us free” (Galatians 5:1).

“The creation itself will be set free from its bondage to corruption and obtain the freedom of the glory of the children of God” (Romans 8:21).

God actually commands us to live in freedom: “Live as people who are free” (1 Peter 2:16).

So, why is the Lord and the freedom he intends for us misunderstood?

The impossible dream of absolute freedom

Our love of freedom gets twisted when we long not for freedom, but for absolute freedom. We lose touch with reality when we long to do anything we want, any time we want, as much as we want, without regard to its effect on our bodies, our emotions, our family and friends, our possessions and financial situation, other people, our world and its environment, and the One who created and sustains us and everything around us. No one, for example, is free to eat chocolate all day, every day, without dire consequences.

So, the problem with absolute freedom is reality. We are inextricably connected to a much bigger reality than freedom of choice and the short-sighted pursuit of happiness, or the self-indulgent focus on me, myself, and I. Absolute freedom is absolute selfishness, unfettered narcissism.

And therefore it is harmful to others and death to self, sooner or later.

Unbridled freedom is slavery

Consider the professional athlete who under the influence of friends begins using cocaine. Before cocaine he was an all-star in his first year in the league. After cocaine he soon lost his starting position, sat on the bench watching others play his position, and eventually was cut from the team. For a new revenue stream, he turned to gambling and selling drugs. Before long, his money ran out, his decent friends were gone, and he ended up in jail.

This story is so common as to be a cliché, but it is a cliché because it is a law. The myth of absolute freedom is actually the worst form of slavery, for it is bondage to what harms and destroys us. The apostle Peter, warning against libertine false teachers, writes: “They promise them freedom, but they themselves are slaves of corruption. For whatever overcomes a person, to that he is enslaved” (2 Peter 2:19).

True freedom

From this, God in his great love and wisdom offers to set us free. He frees us to be able to think, feel, and do what brings life to ourselves and others. The paradox is that God does this by calling us to live in complete submission to his authority and obedience to his commands. Again, this sounds like the ultimate restriction, but it turns out to be the ultimate freedom, because God commands only what is good, life-giving, and freeing.

God loves us and exercises his rule over us in a way that liberates us to be fully alive rather than oppressing and exploiting us. God does not make us puppets or robots; he gave us free will. God is free, and he created us in his image to be free within the bounds of his rule and within the bounds of what is good for us, others, and the world. God gives us the freedom to do what is good, righteous, perfect, pure, just, loving. Thus, he gives us the freedom to be like God.

True freedom is the ability to be disciplined, to control our thoughts, feelings, desires, words, and actions. True freedom is the ability to live with people in a way that enhances our relationships with them. True freedom is the ability to live in a way that enhances our relationship with the God who gives us life and every good thing in life.

Therefore true freedom is the ability to love. God, in love, sets us free to love him with all our being and to love our neighbors as ourselves. True freedom is about love, and true love is about freedom.

The Year of Jubilee

One of the greatest examples of the loving, freedom-giving heart of God is the Year of Jubilee. When he created the nation of Israel and its laws, he knew that over time some of the people would fall into poverty and lose their economic freedom by selling their land and services to others. So, he instituted the law that every fifty years there would be a year of jubilee in which land would revert back to its owners and slaves would be set free.

Leviticus 25:9–10 says, “On the Day of Atonement you shall sound the trumpet throughout all your land. And you shall consecrate the fiftieth year, and proclaim liberty throughout the land to all its inhabitants. It shall be a jubilee for you, when each of you shall return to his property and each of you shall return to his clan.”

The heart of the Lord is to set people free.

Our way and God’s way

Our way: Our fallen nature wants to use freedom as a cover up for evil.

God’s way: Jesus said God sent him “to proclaim liberty to the captives and recovering of sight to the blind, to set at liberty those who are oppressed” (Luke 4:18).

Life principle: We experience perfect freedom when we surrender ourselves to God and live in love.

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Adopting Love

Though you are God’s adopted child, do you act like a spiritual orphan?

adopted child

Imagine yourself being an orphan, nine-years-old, living on the streets of some third-world country. You never knew your father, and your mother died when you were six. No one wanted you, and you had nowhere to go but the streets. You beg. You eat from garbage cans. You steal.

But on one astonishing day, when you reach your beggarly hand to a well-dressed businessman, he smiles, gives you $5, and says, “I want to do more than this for you. I’ve seen you in the streets many times as I go to work, and I’ve begun to like you. I want to help you. In fact, I want to adopt you as my son.”

That very hour he takes you home to his estate. He orders his staff to clean you up, get you some clothes, and feed you well. He assigns you a room where three other adopted children stay. And he tells his assistant to begin the paperwork for legal adoption. A short time later it’s official. The wealthy man is your father; you are his son; you have a new name.

You quickly discover that he is a good man. He is a kind and gentle and hugs you often. Regularly, again and again because he has adopted other orphan children and knows how much they need to hear it, he tells you, “I truly love you. I will provide well for you. You have nothing to fear as long as you are in my house. You are safe. You are secure. And I will train you to be a good, strong, and mature person. I will give you the very best education. Always remember that I truly love you.”

You are God’s adopted child

Through your faith in Jesus Christ, this is what your heavenly Father has done for you. To know how much God loves you, it is vital that you know he is your Father, but more specifically, you need to remember he is your adopted Father. Adopting love is purely voluntary love. An adopted child is chosen. An adopted child is wanted, unlike some birth children who feel unwanted. An adopted child has a father who wants a relationship, wants to be together, wants to provide and protect and train—a father who dearly wants to be a father and dearly yearns to have a son or daughter.

1 John 3:1 says, “See what kind of love the Father has given to us, that we should be called children of God; and so we are.”

Ephesians 1:5 says, “He predestined us for adoption to himself as sons through Jesus Christ, according to the purpose of his will.”

When God’s adopted child feels like an orphan

Imagine once again that you are this adopted child. You find something unexpected happening in your heart. Despite all that your new father has done and promised, you often find yourself afraid. For no reason, you distrust your father. You hoard food in your dresser. You disobey your father’s orders. You complain about the food served in the house and refuse to do your school work. When your father disciplines you, you lay in bed at night and think about running away from home to live once again on the streets.

An orphan spirit can linger in an adopted child. This is what happened to the people of Israel, whom God called his son, when he delivered them from Egypt. They had felt like orphaned street children in Egypt, and even after God set them free and pledged his love and care, they continued to feel and act like orphans. They did not trust their heavenly Father, nor did they obey him. They grumbled and complained and talked of returning to Egypt. They refused to enter the Promised Land. They never get over their orphan spirit.

God’s adopted child receives many assurances

Christians can have an orphan spirit. Our Father, in adopting love, reassures us again and again in Scripture of his commitment to love, provide for, protect, train and educate us.

Paul writes, “My God will supply every need of yours according to his riches in glory in Christ Jesus” (Philippians 4:19).

Peter urges you to cast “all your anxieties on him, because he cares for you” (1 Peter 5:7).

Paul writes, “If God is for us, who can be against us?” (Romans 8:31).

God says, “I will instruct you and teach you in the way you should go; I will counsel you with my eye upon you” (Psalm 32:8).

Jesus said, “My Father, who has given them to me, is greater than all, and no one is able to snatch them out of the Father’s hand” (John 10:29).

The Lord repeats these promises again and again and again because he knows that orphans need to hear it. God’s children fall easily into an orphan spirit: afraid, insecure, distrustful of their Father, complaining about their circumstances, disobedient and suspicious toward his good commands.

Our adopted Father, who chose to love us, keeps reassuring us: “I have loved you with an everlasting love; therefore I have continued my faithfulness to you” (Jeremiah 31:3).

Paul writes: “I am sure that neither death nor life, nor angels nor rulers, nor things present nor things to come, nor powers, nor height nor depth, nor anything else in all creation, will be able to separate us from the love of God in Christ Jesus our Lord” (Romans 8:38–39).

You are no longer an orphan. A good, kind, and faithful God has voluntarily adopted you. He wants to be a Father, and he wants you as his son or daughter forever. He wants this father-child relationship. He delights to provide for, protect, and train you. He is absolutely trustworthy. You can rely on him always to work for your highest good and his highest purposes.

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Burden-bearing Love

How does God bear your burdens?

How God bears your burdens

Are you carrying any burdens today? Are you feeling weighed down, even crushed, by a need or problem, by a responsibility or worry? What would you give to have someone strong and loving enough to come alongside and help share your load!

That is precisely the nature of God’s love. In his love, he bears your burdens.

Psalm 68:19 says, “Praise be to the Lord, to God our Savior, who daily bears our burdens” (NIV).

God showed his burden-bearing love to the Israelites

When the Israelites were oppressed as slaves in Egypt, the Lord appeared to Moses in the burning bush and said, “I have surely seen the affliction of my people who are in Egypt and have heard their cry because of their taskmasters. I know their sufferings, and I have come down to deliver them out of the hand of the Egyptians and to bring them up out of that land to a good and broad land, a land flowing with milk and honey…. And now, behold, the cry of the people of Israel has come to me, and I have also seen the oppression with which the Egyptians oppress them. Come, I will send you to Pharaoh that you may bring my people, the children of Israel, out of Egypt” (Exodus 3:7–10, ESV).

Their burden was mud baked into bricks. Someone had to tread straw into mud, carry that mud in a basket, press that mud into molds, carry the molded mud into an oven, carry finished bricks to the job site, and cement the mud bricks into place. All under a hot Egyptian sun and cruel, whip-bearing Egyptian taskmasters. God saw their burden, and he cared enough to help.

There is a kind of friend or lover who will enjoy a relationship with you, seek your company, like your personality, be glad to see you, hang out with you, laugh with you, high-five with you—but when you have a heavy load, he or she will not be found. God is not that kind of friend, not that kind of love. When you have mud and bricks to carry under a blazing sun, he will help. His love is a burden-bearing love. He is willing to share crushing loads with you daily.

Bearing burdens and the meaning of love

True love and burden-bearing go together. The apostle Paul taught this on the human level, saying, “Bear one another’s burdens, and so fulfill the law of Christ” (Galatians 6:2). What is the law of Christ? It is of course the law of love. Jesus said, “You shall love your neighbor as yourself” (Matthew 22:39), and “A new commandment I give to you, that you love one another: just as I have loved you, you also are to love one another” (John 13:34). So, Jesus commanded his followers to love one another, and Paul said that we fulfill that law by bearing one another’s burdens. You could even say that bearing others’ burdens is at the heart of what it means to love truly.

10 ways God bears your burdens

So, how does God in reality bear your burdens? How does he make a difference? How does he lighten your load? In every way. In response to your prayers and trust, the Lord

  • removes loads he does not want you to carry. (see Matthew 8:14–17)
  • gives strength to carry the loads you must carry. (see Isaiah 41:10)
  • imparts wisdom for how to solve problems and work successfully. (see James 1:5)
  • grants supernatural peace. (see Philippians 4:6–7)
  • sends people to help with your burden. (see Galatians 6:2; 2 Corinthians 7:6)
  • provides for your every need. (see Philippians 4:19)
  • manifests his presence so that you are not alone with your load, giving sympathy, compassion, affection, emotional support. (see Hebrews 13:5–6).
  • cleanses of the sins that make your way hard. When your sin is what brings your burdens, he helps you repent of it. (see Luke 15:13–16; 1 Corinthians 6:11)
  • delivers from Satanic oppression. (see Luke 13:11–13)
  • gives purpose, so that you carry your load for him. He removes the sense of meaningless toil. You can bear any load when you have a sense of its lasting purpose. (see Romans 8:28; Philippians 2:13)

God really does bear our burdens in a way that changes everything, turning us from weakness to strength, from despair to confidence. When we learn to turn to God to help us with our burdens, we find that we can say with Paul, “I can do all things through him who strengthens me” (Philippians 4:13).

Our way and God’s way

Our way: As the Israelites showed in the desert, fallen people do not want to have to rely on God and trust him day by day.

God’s way: The Lord wants to help us with our burdens, if we will only let him.

Life principle: God bears our burdens as we follow his instructions. God cannot bear the burdens of those who are self-reliant, disobedient, and unbelieving.