Holiness is completely misunderstood.

In my last post I made the point that one of the greatest gulfs between our ways and God’s ways is in how we feel about holiness. God is perfectly holy and loves holiness, but apart from Christ we are perfectly unholy. Even if we are in Christ, though we are holy in God’s sight we still often are drawn more to what is worldly, profane, and carnal than what is holy.

In other words, God usually has to drag us into holiness. The Scripture “Be holy because I am holy,” sounds more like a threat than an invitation.

For example, given the choice between watching an episode of Saturday Night Live or spending an hour in prayer and worship, many Christians would choose the former. They might discipline themselves to pray instead of watch profane programming, but they would prefer the comedy. Again, given the choice between watching a three-hour football game or hearing three, excellent, one-hour Bible teachings on how to live a holy life, I suspect few American Christians would enthusiastically choose the latter. Why is that?

How to get an appetite for what is truly good and pleasurable

I say all this not to heap guilt on us but rather to bring the problem starkly into the light. We are very different from God on this. We have a problem, and it is not a small problem. It is not just a matter of whether we can clean up our act well enough to be saved. Rather, it is a matter of knowing God.

True Christians will increasingly want to know God and his ways, and as that desire increases we come face to face with the matter of how we learn to love holiness as God does. How we learn to genuinely desire holiness and dislike worldliness. To have new appetites and desires. How we become like the person who learns to truly love eating natural food and has no desire to consume store-bought, packaged foods loaded with artificial ingredients.

The deadening effect of an unholy mindset

You have gotten this far in the article, so there is hope for you! Some checked out at the first mention of the word holiness. You are still reading because you are no longer walking fully in the steps of Esau, who is the prototype of the person who has absolutely no interest in the things of God, whose life revolves exclusively around the things of this world. Therefore Esau is profane, godless, unholy, irreverent, utterly worldly.

Esau comes up in one of the important sections of the New Testament talking about holiness. Hebrews 12:14–16 says, “Strive for peace with everyone, and for the holiness without which no one will see the Lord. See to it that no one fails to obtain the grace of God; that no ‘root of bitterness’ springs up and causes trouble, and by it many become defiled; that no one is sexually immoral or unholy like Esau, who sold his birthright for a single meal.”

Note the words “unholy like Esau.” Other translations say “godless like Esau.” His defining act was to sell his most valuable asset, his invisible rights as the firstborn son, to his brother. This story is so important to our subject, let’s read it:

When the boys grew up, Esau was a skillful hunter, a man of the field, while Jacob was a quiet man, dwelling in tents.  Isaac loved Esau because he ate of his game, but Rebekah loved Jacob.  Once when Jacob was cooking stew, Esau came in from the field, and he was exhausted.  And Esau said to Jacob, “Let me eat some of that red stew, for I am exhausted!” (Therefore his name was called Edom.)  Jacob said, “Sell me your birthright now.”  Esau said, “I am about to die; of what use is a birthright to me?”  Jacob said, “Swear to me now.” So he swore to him and sold his birthright to Jacob.  Then Jacob gave Esau bread and lentil stew, and he ate and drank and rose and went his way. Thus Esau despised his birthright. (Genesis 25:27–34)

Note that Esau didn’t seem to do anything terrible here. He didn’t kill anyone, commit sexual immorality, steal anything, bow down to a statue. Hunting animals is not wrong. Esau was simply hungry, ravenously hungry. Nothing wrong with that. But he was also simply a fool, which means he made a choice against his best interest. He did not recognize the invisible things that are most valuable in life. The rest of his life confirmed this, for he showed zero interest in knowing God.

In other words, he was God-less. His god was the world, and thus the world became a profane thing to him. Everything becomes profane to the godless person. And a profane life is an increasingly deadening existence.

Holiness understood

Holiness begins with faith in Christ, and then it increasingly becomes part of our mind, desires, appetites, and actions as we see everything in life in its relationship to God. Our holiness grows as we value things as God values them. As we worship and give thanks to God for every good thing in this world. As we approve the conduct that God approves and humbly abominate the conduct that God abominates. And as we enjoy doing what Jesus would do.

Holiness is God-centered (rather than rule-centered). Holiness is love. It is pure in motive, unselfish, and humble. Holiness is without guile or deception, but fearlessly holds to the truth. Holiness is beautiful beyond words, good beyond description, desirable above every worldly pleasure. It is true, positive, clean, and lasting. Holiness is satisfying, fulfilling, and pleasing. It is energizing and zealous, burning like a fire. At the same time, it is peaceful, but not bored or apathetic. Holiness loves God and his glory above all.

Holiness is clean, pure pleasure. It is a pleasure far surpassing impure pleasure.

Holy, holy, holy is the Lord! In his great love, he shares that with you through Christ.

Our way versus God’s way

Our way: Be worldly because it’s more fun. Worldliness is the good life.

God’s way: Be holy for I am holy. Holiness is the good life.